What can I do for him?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by hummblebee, Feb 14, 2007.

  1. hummblebee

    hummblebee hipstertist.

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    Okay, my fella and I are not usually the type of people to be really "romantic". We're both extremely happy with each other, and we fit together like nothing else. We've never been the type to celebrate anniversaries or holidays - we feel how we feel, we say it occasionally, and we try to just live our lives joyfully. :) I'm happy with this arrangement, because as cheesy as it is, it's with him, and that we're together is what really matters to both of us.

    That being said, last night, for the first time in five years together, he brought me a Valentine's Day present. A subscription to Mother Earth News (which is really perfect and awesome in an almost creepy way, because not even a week ago I was thinking how cool that would be to get, but didn't say anything, knowing we couldn't afford it...) It was very sweet of him, I was surprised to say the least... And I'd really love to do something nice for him also.

    I just don't know what. He's at work right now, and has our only vehicle with him. I don't really have any money to spend online, unless someone puts a payment through our website today, or I could charge something to our credit card... (but that hardly seems like a gift from me, especially since the card's in his name!)... I thought of making him something special for dinner, but we only really have our regular run-of-the-mill stuff around here. Making him something isn't even much of an option today, since I have an order to getout that I need to get working on in a minute. I'm just totally lost - is there anything I could do that you guys can think of?
     
  2. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I don't know if this will work on your boyfriend, but on my fiance's birthday last year I didn't know what to give her (we had only just begun our relationship) so I gave her a bottle of aromatherapy massage oil, made her lie on her bed and gave her my best full body massage. Afterwards I told her she could keep the oil so I can massage her anytime she wants. The best part is, she also uses the oil to massage me.:)
     
  3. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    naughty coupons... ie, good for one blowjob, good for one full body massage, good for one mind-blowing orgasm (reciprocation not necessary)
     
  4. hummblebee

    hummblebee hipstertist.

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    lol... Forgot I'd posted this. Good ideas! :) I actually thought of the massage, and tried that... but we ended up having two days of lots of really amazing quiet yummy sex... Not so much a "present" (especially since it was at least as good for me as it was for him!) but he knows I was thinking of it, and they do say "it's the thought that counts" don't they? ;) Seriously, though, to anyone paying attention: if you ever notice me bitching about anything he did, remind me of this experience please! lol, I'm satisfied!
     
  5. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Well, imho, two days of "lots of really amazing quiet yummy sex" is a great present for any occasion!:)
     
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