Ok, i work in a bar and theres this bartender there that sometimes works the same days as i do, and hes always staring at me...i notice it from the corner of my eye. and sometime we make eye contact and smile and what not. a couple of times he's touched my arm or my back as he passed by... he even has made a nickname for me....calls me it all the time, and even a few of the other bartneders are calling me that now, too! maybe he was talkin 2 me about them? sometimes i do seem them lookin at me and talking. i dont get much chance to talk 2 him...but everytime i pass by the bar to go 2 the bathroom, he always looks at me. HOWEVER, the other day i said, "well im off! byeee" and he pouted, looked at his watched and replied "aw already? now i wont have anything to look at anymore." then as i was trying to make MORE convo, i asked, "how old are you????" he told me, "35 - told old for you." (im 19 haha) i know thats way older..but he doesnt look it but hey, im not asking for a judgement here on the age difference. soooo i dont know what to do. i keep thinkin bout em....???? does he like me or what? i dont how to get the "ball rolling" , as in hanging out and what not. ???? i dont wanna be the one to ask for his # or anythin like that...but what do u think? THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
write your number on a napkin or paper or something, with your name (or nickname, whichever he knows), slide it into his tip jar sometime in the evening next time you're there. If nothing else ya'll could just go for coffee outside of the bar setting and end up with a fun friendship.
