The reason I entered the forum - setting the moment, to bring butterflies within yourself - to feel your heart beat deep, soundly. To want to remove your clothes, relish yourself - to see yourself grow in size, color and tone. To see your own self in the mirror - the ultimate that no other view can achieve. To make it last as long as possible - taking you away from all that is around you. The Masturbation Date - all alone bringing yourself to new heights, knowing if anyone was watching they would enjoy your pleasure.
he Masturbation Date - to treat yourself to the next time, sending expectation through your body as the time away from your destination nears ... say Tuesday Evening as I know my condo will be totalling mine for a good four hours. The Masturbation involves just me, and my pleasure without the need to concern another. The mounting, even typing this, building with solid heartbeat in the center of your chest as the butterflies build and build over the next few days. Shall I masturbate between now and then? Yes as I hope to have the wife go to bed earlier this evening as is her profile ... I will strip down naked with a small towel under my butt, and lay on the couch lounge tonight. The city street active below, the saltwater fish tank in view, the windows not blocked, french doors with no curtains. The moon perhaps out to the East as I warm myself up, running my hands on the outside of my thighs, the base of my rib cage - I grow in size but do not touch just yet ........ The Masturbation Date is a fantastic merge into my date alone while occupying my downtime until the time is here to indulge for as long so I can.
Yes I am ... this weekend, Friday after a decent week, Valentine’s Day which was nice but not totally romantic – Friday Night just as on Valentine’s Day Evening, I wanted to be very intimate with my wife; visions of setting her on the bed side and indulging myself into her – breasts for warm up, oral pleasure for mutual excitement then sensual intercourse. Neither evening was this to be. Yes we had AM sex on Thursday morning after Valentine’s Day Evening and I did a nice job bringing her to high levels to include oral pleasure then intercourse with me on top – slow, lengthy as is deep, then shallow but as usual this took about 12 minutes, her top end. Friday Night I asked her if we could be together and if not – I would enjoy time alone. Her reply? “Didn’t we just do that this morning!” ---- I asked if I could stay in bed and masturbate but this was not something she wanted so I left the bed room, totally nude and had a long wonderful good 90 minute alone intimacy. It took me from the front room couch, to the hall bathroom for mirror image (I am staying in good shape through the winter months) with the dim light from the shower stall, then to the back room standing in the sliding glass doors. I would have stepped outside if it was not snowy on the deck – the cold would not have bothered me. In the AM she advised me that she has no drive – medication and age has taken the urge out of her and the fact that I must masturbate takes from her, makes her sad as she is not performing her wifely duties. Why I did not state should I be deprived as I did not want to place more burden on her. I have masturbated all my life and she is aware of this – even wrote her “Alone in the Woods” sessions of my time in college, etc. highlighted by outdoor masturbation. Therefore I must have my “Masturbation Dates” – time I can isolate for alone time; to build on the thought, the upcoming sensation – working for quality and filling an hour to four or five hours of time – double pops; sessions with many different positions, self grooming for smoothness – all to bring myself to a deep, warm, erotic orgasm. Masturbation Dates set in many different places, as my mind is the finest sex organ in the universe. I have tomorrow night – Next Monday Night, Feb 26 set and my mind will take my body to new heights as if it were the first time. I can taste my clear pre-cum and sense my girth, length and hardness as I write this then re-visit often as I look out the window, have a break, downtime – to Tomorrow Evening and then many more!
I must say - Why are we here if we are not looking for something? Open discussion; Finding new stories to bring new enlightment? Read a nice story about a female who watched her friend masturbate in a room, joined in for the "taste" then went home for a nice "date" with herself to have her mother looking in from the doorway. I find this sexy and will enjoy reading more, interacting with guests & members and yes I am looking for a mate, long term to share both words & actions. Why would I be here otherwise? I hope if nothing more my stories & thoughts bring at least one to a true new sensation be it alone or with their partner at the time. Am I wrong for this thought? I do not think so and will debate if one cares to.
Last evening, thinking to after work today, the wife to bed early – I put on VS channel to catch la tour de California (avid & active cyclist). Chilling still clothed in my underwear, dorm pants, and purple button down business shirt lounging on the chaise part of the couch in the front room. Watching the race, looking down onto the street below my mind drifts as my left hand rubs my inner leg. There is a huge crash on the course at the head of the peloton taking out all but about 30 riders, the others scrambling from a heap to get on course – I slowly unbutton my shirt placing the inside outer base of my right hand at the base of my rib cage, running its length – working the center “v” of my rib cage over my ABs. My left hand running the length of my developing penis along the side, leaving the head to become ripe. Moving both hands to the sides of base of my rib cage, I move in unison down to the top of my dorm pants, back up – each time moving closer to the “v” feeling my toned ABs. My guy wants to come out and play so I slip my dorm pants, then my underwear off but leave on my unbuttoned shirt – sliding the underwear under my butt to save the chaise. Running the tips of my index & middle fingers up the length of my shaft, still not touching the head I gain in girth, hardness while I turn my attention back to the riders – coming into the last circuit the favorites who crashed are back a solid 60 secs but the race is heating up for a splint finale. With my left hand I firmly grab my penis, running deep slow at first strokes while increasing in intensity as the race continues – who is going to win? I want to be there at the end. Race over – hard as a rock, clear ooze used as my victory drink of choice – heart beating soundly in my chest – I take another taste. Turning off the entertainment system with the changer – I walk to the back of the condo not knowing exactly where I want to finish. I find myself at the backroom loveseat – take off my shirt and lay it down to cover the cushion. Lay lengthwise with my head on the pillow – feet together bottoms against each other positioned at the center top of the other arm, knees laid out parallel to the floor; spread-eagle, I take it up a notch while looking out the doorway through the hallway window. Would someone see me from the apartment across the court – perhaps if I turned on the light but the soft light from off the deck sliding glass doors would only show me if someone really wanted to look. I slide my hips down a bit, tilt my head back and dream of my wife over me as I give her oral pleasure, tongue ringing around her pussy lips – tongue soothing my own lips – I rock myself nice and hard, switching hands after about 20 strokes. As I start to feel the orgasm I cup my left hand under my penis head and ooze into my palm my creamy milk. Then savor the creamy delight in my mouth….
Masturbation date? I don't understand hm Just jerk it. Don't put too much thought into it, it is mere pleasure without subjecting yourself to STD's. Though some do consider it a form of self-intimacy. hm
Passion vs. Release = Date vs. Slam Bam Thank You (not to judge-just an individual preference/call it self-indulgence or self -intimacy it is passion for the time alone, or with your partner). Yesterday morning I dressed nicely for my date, as I like to take care of myself, look good physically, dressed, partially dressed or undressed. Throughout the work day my mind remained on my date, much like the expectation of the Super Bowl party, the first date with a person of your dreams, Valentine’s Day … making my day enjoyable. When I got home I removed my shoes, socks, pants and unbuttoned my shirt – opened the fridge – sliced a lime in half, pulled out some shrimp – marinating the shrimp in olive oil & lime juice then went onto this site to see what may be going on. After just a few minutes I decided it was time for a new close groom. I went into the master bath–high vanity top, double sink with full mirror in the wall, and stripped down nude. Taking the shaving cream from the vanity, I placed my right foot on the top of the vanity, turned on the water, hot – and lathered up my inner groin, my scrotum, around the base of my penis and up through my butt crack. With a nice razor I groomed my right side nice and smooth – front and up my butt crack. Switched over to my left foot on the vanity, and the same with the left side as my dick grew and grew with anticipation. To make for a closer shave and sensation I repeated on both sides making sure my scrotum was nice and smooth, hairless, then moving to the base of my hard penis to get a close shave. With a hot bath towel I washed myself up, checked the groom in the mirror and saw myself looking nice. I grabbed a fresh towel, dropped a good dollop of vitamin E lotion in my left palm and moving to the bed room where I turned the wife’s swivel jewelry, underwear cabinet for the mirror side – positioning it so when I laid down on the bed I could see myself. Being here before I know where to lay so I can see myself in the mirror of the make up table and the mirror of the cabinet. With three pillows under my head the view is good – I sooth my fresh groomed areas with the lotion, working up and down myself shaft while watching myself from above, and in the mirrors. I can only smile and I see my passion for the moment … I was able to achieve a double pop – full orgasm with warm, white cum covering my mid-section, shaft, and hands which I enjoyed as renewed lube, and as an appetizer before the shrimp tacos that await me for my second course.
I came back on the site after being away in Europe for a while ... same old stuff, nothing unique - to set your sites on to a time to enjoy masturbation is a treat - in my opinion far better than the day to day masturbation for release and because you don't have someone to enjoy. To have a fantastic sex life and want to masturbate to bring yourself to a new high after a multitude of times alone is a treat, a fine date that never lets me down. Hope to see some new, unique and enjoyable threads as opposed to when did you first beat off, how many times a day, do you eat your own cum, etc. Shit we all know the answers to this - make it special - wear some nice clothes, remove them like no one else can - as Elaine said on a Seinfled eposide once - a man has himself 24 hours a day, seven days a week and I have it only a half hour/hour a week. How can I keep up? Of course this is man and woman - no one knows how to turn you on better than yourself, but the wife waking you up in the middle of the night saying "I want to make you feel good - don't worry about me" then masturbating me to my hearts content cums real damn close. Salud!
Masturbation Date with my wife ... after my wife goes & gets her hair done we have a masturbation date --- I groom her. I relax her as she sits up on the bed, many pillows - with comb & scizzors I cut your public hair very close, then lather her up with shaving creme, giving her a razor close shave from her butt crack, up along her pussy lips and all around her inner thighs, up on her bully for a smooth nude shave. After the second shave, making sure all is close, not a hair missed - I apply a nice lotion on my hands and fingers - giving her a massage as she is totally away from anything other than her pleasure I drop my hed between her legs and give her oral pleasure to die for .... I love it when she tells me she has an appointment to get her hair done.