The story of the fox and the crow comes to mind. Compliments are nice, but flattery is a dangerous thing...
Haha, you can count yourself fortunate. Better he blanks you now than to keep on with the flattery until they've wormed their way into your life and are then in a position to cause more of a mess. But he may be using the hot-and-cold technique, and you saw through it. It's a nasty technique, that one, because it can get to you even when you know it's what they're doing. Simple psychology, but still powerful. Never come across the "learn how to fly on your broomstick" gambit before. It amazes me people resort to this stuff...
thanks prellaen for your post! He is a very controlling man...not many like him...i just dared to tell it as it is... The first time I met him, I was trying to have a chat with his missus and he kept butting in...I had guessed both their star signs so that shut him up a bit...but he persisted with his controlling. So when he asked "what do you do" for the craic, I replied "I am a witch"...hence the subsequent broomstick jokes *groan*. You are right though its better that I dont get involved with him... Funnily enough I have an online friend also an Aqua who if I dont contact him, he dont get in touch with me...and yet would be offended if I didnt...would you consider that a head feck Do you get this? I dont.... Am I doing something wrong?
If he expects you to be the one who always get in touch, rather than it being fifty-fifty, then I don't know if that's a mindfuck, it just sounds like hypocrisy to me...
Hmm well I had an eating disorder for a while there...that is a HUGE mind fuck. Talk about distortion. I was at a hospital getting blood tests done (right after I decided to recover and told my mum we went there) and she couldn't find a vein. After, I was in the bathroom for a pee-in-a-cup thing, and I caught a quick *real* glance (not body-image-distorted) view of my arm, and it looked like it would break if I slapped someone it was so thin. That was the most fucked-up thing to date in my life
You didnt deserve it at all....no one does Its out birthright to receive love...... Everyone should be showered with love... love is all take a (((((((((hug))))))))) from me
I don't know, really... I think it is change... Ever since I graduated from high school, I became a completely mind-fucked person.
people who lie people who take without giving back seeing my son in so much pain not being able to tell me my mother things now she is dead people who are cruel and insensitive the thought of dying without having something I really really need
my biggest mind fuck? my friend, who was 17, was murdered. it just so happens that she was the one who talked to me when i had a gun to my head....i wouldnt be here today if it werent for her.