I cant seem to crush on anyone..and when I do I get bored with them so easily. If the chance to get into a relationship comes up I freak out and get second thaughts. My conclusion-commitment issues. Opinions? Experiences?
you're 16 most people are fairly flighty about relationships at 16 If you are genuinely concerned about commitment issues, the best bet is to get yourself into some counselling to nip it in the bud, as it were, before you end up really breaking someone's heart.
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I havent really considered councelling. it is probably just my age, as you said. but I've allways been like it. it gets kind of annoying really lol. im like, in love or something one day and then i wake up the next and Im over it. But yea, if it continues perhaps I should consider councelling, just think it may be a little drastic at this time perhaps. Thank you for your opinions they are apreciated.
Maybe you should read a book about it? I mean, its true you are only 16, but hell, in a lot of cultures, and in most of history, 16 year old were wives & mothers, so in my book, if you are asking adult questions, you're an adult. There's a *really* good book, it's short, and balanced, and is essentially about being spiritual in love - its called "if the buddah dated' by charlotte kassel. stop by a bookstore sometime, let me know what you think...
By the time I was 15 i had met the love of my life.....it was perfect....one of those things that you just knew........we were engaged and I never questioned spending my life with just one person. Then, he went out of remission and not long after died from cancer. I was lost with out him.....I figured that if my soulmate had died, that there was no purpose in me staying with anyone besides for my amuesment for a while......and after - a day- I would move on. I've had 2 kids - and couldn't bring myself to stay with their fathers.....I just didn't want to. But once I started thinking and understanding I realized - I'm young. It's ok to have commitment issues....I have the rest of my life ahead of me. Now, I'm starting to get tired of it though.....the random dating that leads to no where.....but I also realize that by understanding my issues I can better deal with them and when I meet the right person - I'll know it and my issues wont matter......maybe they're like your natural defense for being with the wrong person, ya know? A lot of words for a basic message.....you're young......enjoy life......when you meet the right person - you'll know it....so why worry about it if you know they're not the right person?
