is it wrong for me to want and date my ex g/f's friend?

is it wrong that i want to date my ex g/f's friend, a couple of week after we broke up?

 

nah, you only live once. date who you want when you want.

 

I would not say there was anything 'wrong' with it, but you need to see how your ex feels about it.

If he/she is OK with it (and I mean honestly OK, not just saying it to make you feel better) then go for it. If your friend would prefer you to not see this person, then stay away.

 

If you and your ex were together for a long time, then I would say just wait a couple more weeks. Or just move in slowly on her friend.

 

I may be in that boat myself before i know it.. I have been hanging with my ex's friend a lot lately and tonite she kissed me on the cheek, then on the mouth. She has kissed me before but only playing. Anyway, if anything comes of it I will not say no cause they are friends. My only advice is don't do anything out of revenge or to show off to to your ex. That's just wrong to do.

 

are you kidding??? You have to even question this? No way! Run...Run as far away in the oppisite direction as possible. Either you'll break up their friendship or your friendship or they'll both get pissed at you for something sooner or later then all hell breaks loose.

 

I don't see why his ex should have a say in this...

If the relationship is over it's over. I doubt he asked his ex's friend before they went out.....
You don't need permission to go out with someone.

 

lol because depending on the girl she can be spiteful. He broke up with the chick a couple of weeks ago but wants to be with her friend? Seems shady to me... But then again everyone needs to make their own decisions and they all have their own opinions... That was just mine (and he asked) so please lets not argue about it. I've been on both ends of this kind of situation... Its more the girls decision I think... shes the one who might potentionally lose a friend.

 

seems as if the girls the one that made the decision in the first place, and the thread starter is the reluctant one.

as far as morality goes, if it felt like love with your ex, and doenst with her freind i would say no. if it didnt feel like love with your ex then by all means go out with whoever you want. if it felt like love with your ex, but also feels like love with her friend i would say go for it. but thats jsut where i stand on the issues.

 

Forget all the convoluted blah blah feelings crap.

Do you make your decisions?
Or does somebody else's potential emotions make your decisions?

 

ouch. very true.