so these past two weeks my best friend, Emily, has been getting alot of attention from a lot of guys.. and it's been making me feel like shit because we're practically the same so why the hell is she getting all the attention? anyway, i went to her house this weekend and she invited one of her friends over and he was all over her and our other friend, cory. it seemed like he didn't want anything to do with me at all... he made out with both of them right in front of me and then it was my turn and i didn't even make out with him because i'm too fucking shy...i've only met this guy three times.. so we drove him home and i felt like shit because i didn't make out with him.. but i was nervous, i didn't know him that well and i've never really kissed anyone before so...yeah.. this weekend was shit for me.. i just wanted someone to come my way this weekend..like every fucking weekend..nothing happens.. am i wanting someone so badly people can sense it?? i'm just so tired of being alone.
You are only 16 - you have a vast reservoir of males and sex ahead of you so don't agonize over one weekend. Be glad you have not just given yourself over to your animal instincts and that you are showing some reserve and morality in your sexual activities. Take it slow - there are babies and STDs out there, and it is much better to have a quality relationship that results, after you get to know each other, in a loving relationship and protected sexual intercourse. Sex is not the be all to end all, but the icing on the cake. At 16, you don't need a fuck buddy.
I know this problem, but there will be a time when everything is changing... Of course it isn't nice if you are very shy, but you can change this too. You only need to talk at first to a foreign boy and than to another and if you talk to a lot of foreign people you are going to be not as shy as at the moment...
Sounds to me like you were the only one with any self respect. Be proud of yourself. Do you really just want to make out with some guy or are you waiting for someone you likes you for you and respects you. You don't have anything to feel bad about. You know you don't need every guy hanging all over you to make you something. I know it sometimes feels far off but you will meet someone special to you for whom you are special as well. Just hang in there. Don't give in to jealousy because really what do you have to be jealous about? Don't confuse shyness for a conscience.
really this isn't something you should worry about..i can completely understand why you're upset, i've been there...but the thing is you are only 16..theres so much more for you than just making out with a guy..i'm surprised your friends didn't feel as awkward as you did, maybe they did but didn't show it or say anything...don't worry about it babe, when you're least expecting love it will find you..and love is so much better and more important than just making out with some guy {{hugs}}
Don'r worry at all, and don't feel bad just because you didn't kiss some guy that you don't care about, it's pointless. Look, it sounds like you are good wit any boy now, and that you won't say no to anybody just because you feel alone and left out, please don't do that, i've been there and i know that feeling but you must be strong, decide what you really want and look for it. You don't want some guy who makes out with everybody. Find some boy you are really interesed at, and work your way to his heart. peace
Jackstraw - at 61 you need a fuck buddy, at 16 you should be more concerned with your selfworth and self respect, and having sex for sex's sake at 16 is slutty.
IMO, having sex for sex's sake at any age is slutty. OP, listen to what Haid says. Anybody can go out and make out/fuck with random people, but it takes someone of character to form an actual relationship. Find a guy that will respect you and treat you well, and then explore the physical side of things. I think the problem you are having is that you feel self-concious about being supposedly unable to attract a guy. What you have to realize is that is completely untrue. Not getting a random hookup doesn't mean that you aren't attractive, it just means that you don't give off a sense of being easy. That is a very good thing. Please, for your own sake, keep it that way.
You answered your own question. She puts out... Your not. Heres the thing these guys dont respect her not at all, they just like what shes offering. trust me when you get a guy who likes you for you and not what your offering, she'll probably be jealous
thanks guys..it means alot to me. well, the best friend now has a boyfriend (not the boy she made out with in front of me) so, i don't think she'll be a whore anymore..well, to anyone else except her boyfriend. I just hope it's not right in front of me. *crosses fingers* i love you all *hugs*
