My brother recently killed himself, he was 23. My parents are a wreck and i have no answers. I have a whirlwind of emotions ranging from anger to sadness. I dont really know why i posted this here but its almost 4 a.m. and i dont see myself sleeping tonight.
trevor, I'm sorry you and your folks have to go through this. My heart goes out to your family. Give your folks your love, they need you right now, as you could use their love.
Trevor: I'm so sorry for your pain of your brothers parting. Have never had it happen in our family, but many times in our small town, which is like family. I wish there words that I could say that would make it better, but there aren't any. Be there for your parents and they'll be there for you. God bless you and yours. It just takes time to get beyond today.......Dennis
Trevor, I know right now is one of the hardest times in your life I do not know what I would do in your shoes. As freeinalaska said the best you can do right now is be there for your parents and let them be there for you. Most people don't want to hear this but I will say it anyways it would probably help to find a local support group for you and you parents they will be more eqiuped to help you all through this. However we are also here for you if you need someone to talk to feel free to PM me and I will get back to you even if it is just to get out any emotion you are having and want someone there to listen Even if you are angry and want to scream at someone. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Hey Trevor, I'm am sooooooo sorry that this has happened to you. Just be there for the ppl around you family his friends and there will be lots of ppl around for you as well . If you ever need to chat or want to Throw your feelings out just give me a shout. I just want to add one thing. my uncle Terry my moms Bro killed himself when he was 16 he had everything going for him (i wish i got to know him ) But i never got a chance to meet him or he never got a chance to hold me as a baby . What i did recieve as a baby though was his name Teri-Lauren (Terrance) (and my prandpa's name Laurance) Lauren . Life will be hard for you right now, you need to mourn ,grieve and there is a lot going through your head . We're all here for you bud. PG aka Teri-Lauren
I am sorry this happened to you, but don't hold your grief back, let it all out... that is the only healthy way to deal with this. Maybe you can find some one who can help you through this difficult time. don't worry, your brother is in a better place.
