Is it possible to forget the love of your life? I met mine, but we live in different worlds - long story. Point is, we cant be together. Now its over, will i forget him?
I have come to the conclusion that the love of your life is called the love of your life for a reason.
why would you want to forget? in the end, all we have are memories. i would never want to forget the love of my life, and i never even had a relationship with her beyond extraordinarily deep friendship( i was a soldier...long story)
I geuss i just need to accept it huh I dont wanna think about him right now, cause it hurts so so so much, cant explain this feelin, never experienced it before. He lives 5min from here and i got his number on speed dial. Every 5minutes i think of calling, but I cant and he cant. Fuck i hate this so much. One minute im crying my eyes out, next thing i know i just hate everything around me.
I beleieve we can transform what you are feeling into sweet memories. deprogram the speed dial and live on with your head held high, and remember your love as a wonderful interlude. let the negative go. there's more life to be had, but "bless your sweet mistakes that brought you to this place."
I don't think there is any single right person. a lot of it is just being or having been really, really in love, often wrapped up in nostalgia.
I agree. What I mean believe is, there are multiple true loves out there, for everyone. weather you meet even one out of the 3 billion is another question. better? so I mean, you find one, its something to hold on to.
I meet all opinions half way. Its true that there is more then 1 person to make u truly happy in this world. But it goe beyond that. You can be with a better person when ur 46 and still secretly be thinking about that one person u met 25 yrs ago that had that little extra. This man im talking about here isnt right for me. And im not right for him. There are men better then him for me out there, but i want this guy. He can make me cry, smile, shout, laugh all in 1 minute without even trying. Hes amazing. What the problem is? There are many. But one thing is for sure, we had to part no matter how happy we were. I just need to find a way to be ok with this. We were together for a little over 2 yrs, and in them 2yrs we spoke on the phone daily! We saw eachother almost every day. Everything in my world concerned him. Now im here stuck with a million memories and hes not there. I dont know what to do without him. He was the person id run to for any and everything. Men try to hit on me and all i can think is:'asshole , ur not him so leave me the fuck alone.' This is crazy. Whats wrong with me?????
time will help ya to forget him...or yeah time is a good thing all you have to do is enjoy your life now...without him...
I don't believe there is a love of my life out there for me. The idea that there is just one person (or even a small number of people) out there for us is fairly unrational. May I ask, what do you love about him? Is it his value system, his morals, his sense of humor? Do you doubt you will ever find someone else with those traits again?
Just remember: As long as human's are around, there will always be a chance for you to get laid. That's what I tell myself
hehehe oh man crud u always got something interesting to say What I like about him: His past, his view on the world, his humour, his hard working character, his knowledge, his body, his way of driving, his way of dancing, his way of expressing himself, his way of being embarassed, his way of being mad, the way he treats me. There will always be more then 1 person out there for all of us, i mean come on, this earth is totally overpopulated. But still.....theres always a person that meant more in ur life. I see this in so many people.
