I have problems with my girlfrends trust.We are togeder for over 3months and few weeks ago i lie her for something really stupid and not important(I was drunk to )day after I told her that that was a lie and everything was great after that until i go out without her.Every night i go out without her she sends me few messages where am I what are I doing and when I said the truth she always said "who knows where are u and with who are u".I never try to cheat on her I had few chance but I didnt.I love her but I see that this isnt going very well. plz help me.I need to convince her to trust me like before.What should I do??? sorry for my english
Hmm, firs thing, never lie to her again hey, it's normal that she is acting that way, you lied to her, she lost her trust in you give more time, and try to get closer with her, share your secrets, shoe her that YOU trust her, and that she can be safe with you
^ yes. itll take time to rebuild trust. thats all you can really do, is contineu to be truthful and trust her, give her reasons to trust you again too
you will need some time to convince her just behave yourself boy be tender and loving and she'll trust ya
Why did you lie? Few things are harder to get over than dishonesty because you begin to question every word ever said. Sit her down and talk to her being 100% honest "Okay I lied to you about _____ because ______ and I understand why you don't trust me, but I want you to believe in me again because I love you and the thought of you not trusting me makes me feel _____________" (fill in the blanks ) Good luck....and next time don't lie.
ok I never lie her from that day and every thing was great until one day a one girl arrived on our college and she is crazy about me but i dont want anything with her(not because she isnt atractiv but i dont want problems in my relationship)from that day my gf thinks that i have something with her.for over 2weeks i needed to convince her that there isnt nothing going on.one day that girl asked me to do her a favor I accepted to help i did what she was asking and I forgot to tel my gf that she was with me that day she was furious and angry.ok I convince her agein that there was nothing going on.then she needed to ask her one thing but she dont like her from the first day so I have to do that.I call that girl on phone send messages but no answer then I went on her work and take a walk and asked her.my gf was angry agein whay did I have to go to her work and take a walk throught town with her.I did only what she ask me to do.I now have no contact with that girl and i have no problems with that.now me and my gf are having a break(that means no talking on college too) for how long I dont know she said enough long that she can think thats not a problem I know that she will come to me agein because I know that I'm very inportant to her but the problem is WHAT I'M DOING WRONG????
It sounds like your girlfriend is very suspicious and distruts you around other women. You should either develop a hyper-awareness of the kinds of inocent situations that might alarm your girlfriend or get a girlfriend who is more reasonable about your interacting with other females.
So far, nothing. It's just human nature not to trust someone who lied to you, even if it's only one time. Remember the story of the boy who cried "wolf"? When he was telling the truth, nobody believed him because he lied to them before.
ok thats fine.I understand.No there is a another problem Yesturday she broke up with me because we always fight and thats not the way it will work.And now the last thing I did to make her broke up is that I the last time we wanted to see each other I WAS LATE FOR 15MIN BECAUSE OF TRAFFIC?!?!?!?!?So tell me am I the one how is destroying this relationship????(I seid destroying because I know that we will be agein together soon we always do)now u will say "whats the problem then?" the problem is that I dont want any other fight with her.
