when girls take sex so seriously that it becomes ridiculous, a caricature of sex. they want to look into your eyes as you go in-out, they want you to recite poetry or something. I have no problem with being close, being intimate, saying I love them. but I hate that stupid "fairy-tale" movie sex, with dramatic vows and promises. hearing "I'll love you forever" or whatever is such a turn-off. I'm not too crazy about the opposite, the "pull my hair" or whatever kind of sex, but that's acceptable to me.
Well, good for you! Intimacy and romance are obviously not your thing. Find a partner that feels the same and be happy. Me, I think there's a right time and a place for the gazing into each other's eyes and being romantic type sex, the "tie me up and spank me" type sex - and everything inbetween. But then, I'm not afraid of intimacy
What a dickweed! The dude just SAID he's into intamacy and Romance, jsut not some Walt Disney fairy tale version. I consider myself a romantic and a passionate person but I could understand the cheese factor. There's a difference between sincerity and dramma... Dickweed.
Well, I personally like to talk about what I did that day. What I ate for lunch. Make plans for tomorrow.
Chronic, there's no need to get personal and start swearing at me just because you didn't like what I said. You might disagree with me - that's not reason to call me names. As for the actual subject...I then rephrase what I said. The OP obviously doesn't like to be AS intimate as some people. And I think there's a huge difference between drama which is fake and insincere, and true love where you mean what you say and want to be close and truly DO want to be with that person forever.
I try not to take sex "so seriously," but honestly, sometimes my boyfriend and I just let slip some terribly cheesy things. Are they honest and true? Of course. But if you were to hear them, you'd probably puke at the sheer sweetness of them. Then again, I also enjoy hair-pulling at times. To each their own. :butterfly
Yo TOENAIL, I'm sorry. I act pretty confrontational here, but usually when I lose it the person deserves it. You didn't, you're cool. My blood sugar was low and I bitched. I'm sorry, forgivsies?
it's hard for me to sex seriously. i feel like a puritan if i do. but i'm not really a hardcore pornstar, either. we talk about things. not cheesy fairytale shit. i mean, it happens. depends on what phase the moon is in.
Wiuf - When You Get Older You May Want To Show A Little Romance In Your Lovemaking. Women Love It And It Shows You Care For Them And They Are Not Just A Fuck Buddy. And You May Just Like Thinking About Someone Other Than Yourself For A Change.
Sometimes this just HAPPENS, with me and my boyfriend...we range from a bit of roughness to extreme intimacy and loving and yes, even saying well be together forever. Its a feeling that just arises, and from BOTH of us simultaneously, and is in no way falsely pure or even false. I guess youd just have to experience it... Its not like that every time though like i said...that WOULD be phony...sometimes its a more primal kind of passion i guess. But seriously we cant help that shit -Maxi
yeah sometimes you really just can't help it. you just got to not worry about the cheese factor: i mean, you are getting laid, right?
maybe my problem is that I dated a girl like that for a long time, and she turned out to be a total train-wreck. or maybe I keep people at arms length because of some kind of subconscious defense mechanism I'm not aware of. I couldn't say. I agree with what someone else said about it feeling kind of puritanical; either way it sets off alarms for me, which I ackowledge is probably MY problem.
