is this normal?

hi, i'm 18 and far as long as i know i've always masturbated without an erection (don't ask how ) but the few times i tried masturbation with one are way too exhausting, i don't come as fast and the orgasm is less satisfying then when i masturbate without an erection. Also when i'm turned on or horny or whatever, then i am, until i have an erection. whenever i get an erection i'm not turned on or horny anymore, it's all gone and i have no need to masturabte then anymore... i just wondered... is this normal???

i mean okay, i am transgendered i'm confused about who i truly am, what my true gender is...

so does this have to do with me being transgendered? or is it just abnormal, or are their also guys out there who rather masturbate without erection and/or aren't turned on anymore when the erection comes?

plz, help

 

Transgendered with or without an operation to change your genitals?

 

no operation, i'm still figuring out who i am...

 

Most males need a erection to masturbate to orgasm. Some transgendered people have male genitalia, but are not able to ejaculate. Others have small "penises" which really are enlarged clitorises, but I assume you have testicles. When you say you masturbate without an erection, does that mean you usually just play with yourself, soft, until you have orgasms?

PM me if you don't want to discuss this in front of everyone.

 

maybe your a female

 

well, i just put my penis between my legs, en keep pushing the head against my body very fast, i don't think that's playing with yourself

 

Hey, Apsenniel; You maybe could give yourself a break and quit worrying about being 'normal.' You are you! Enjoy as much of your life as you can while you figure the rest out. You write as one in honest thought with yourself - something that many, many folks are unable to do. Keep that up, don't worry about how the rest of us masturbate (Cutted was correct; hard.) But the rest of us ain't you. You are the important one, and young enough to still find a solubile way to live your life. Sooner or later you'd better have a face to face talk with someone - but be choosy, they must be eminently fair minded! Sex therapist, psychologist, open minded clergy, trusted friend! Don't worry, you'll find your real karma under one pile of wisdom or another. We're rooting for you!

 

thx fastswitch ^_^ i will try not to think about it do much, and just let it be

grtz, Apsenniel

 

Apsennial - there must be some transgendered internet groups in Hipforums or elsewhere, so go there for some frank conversation. And see a doctor if you are able to.

 

i am seeing a gender therapist and found the transgendered section, thank you.

 

Soft dicks are like... laffy taffy or something.

 

i don't have a soft dick when i have an erection, if that what you mean by soft dick... just my desire to masturbate is over when that happens

what does laffy taffy mean?

 

wow i have never had the pleasure of meeting someone like you. i have a huge interest in the human body. id love to chat more if you feel like it. pm me (ill leave it in your hands)

 

pmed you :--)

 

maybe you arent twerking it right.. if you know what i mean. like get really into it. or just upgrade and find someone to give you an erection..