Advice on eating pussy: Wanna get better (;

Okay, I'll go right on and admit it: I give pretty damn mediocre head! Or at least I think I do... My only sexual partner was my ex of a year and a half, and learning to please her orally was a long and difficult road for me. First off, she was incredibly shy when sober or not high, and so naturally it was hard for her to talk about what she wanted. When I asked her how to eat pussy, she gave me very brief and timid answers which were vague and not very helpful. She was so shy in fact that I would tend to only be able to eat her under a blanket... All in all, I only glanced her clitoris for the first 9 months of our relationship, because hers was seemingly especially small, and I didn't know the rule of "Stay on Target." (She was too damn shy to tell me!) I would give long and sloppy licks that started way bellow her clit and ended way above it. I couldn't give her an orgasm untill 6 or 7 months of being with her at least, and at first it would take 30-40 minutes!

When I stayed on target and found her clit easier, I gradually got to the point where I could give her an orgasm in 10 minutes, and on rare occasions a little less. By the end, I believe I gave her a couple 6 or 7 minute orgasms. Even after such a time as the first couple minutes, my jaw would tire and my tongue would feel like a block of concrete. I'd get a stiff neck, and under that damn blanket it would be hard to breathe (I generally don't breathe well while giving head.) I could also never get my tongue to be hyper fast. I would range from slow to medium paced strokes with high pressure.

Are these little problems normal, with the stiff neck and a mouth that gets exhausted quickly? If it took 10 minutes to get her off, is that a sign that my cunnilingus is bad? What's a good amount of time to make her cum? I loved pleasing her, especially toward the end, but I want to improve.

 

http://www.mypleasure.com/education/sexed/cunnilingus.asp

That has some good tips, hope you find them usefull.

 

hey dont worry about the time it takes for you, my hubby has spent many an hr down there and still i dont get off with any of it at all!! if you can do it ever then your way ahead of us, never mind that it takes you 10 mins, try lasting out for hours on end!!!

 

ChronicWhatever - try a little g spot stimulation with your fingers at the same time as you give her clitoral stimulation with your mouth. Check out my other posts on the g spot or PM me for instruction.

 

Exercise your tongue, outside of sex, try just playing with it ever so often every day, you do it for about a week and you should get better at using it, biggest problem with guy's giving head is that they're not that good in moving the tongue, using your fingers inbetween and while you're giving head is also good. Moving your head would also help.