Orgasm Trouble - Need Help

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by LoveToPlease, Mar 12, 2007.

  1. LoveToPlease

    LoveToPlease Member

    Messages:
    3
    Likes Received:
    0
    me and my g/f have sex regularly, and it's great sex. usually 3-4 times a day and she comes every time. for some reason these past two days she hasn't been coming and i got kinda worried. she's sick and has been feeling shitty so i hope its because of that. Anyone have any advice or can relate?? please let me know im stressed about this
     
  2. Strawberry_Fields_Fo

    Strawberry_Fields_Fo RN

    Messages:
    2,730
    Likes Received:
    10
    3-4 times a day? And she's feeling sick? Christ, give her poor vagina a rest! Women aren't machines, you know...shit, I can't even masturbate 3-4 times a day. Just chill out...it doesn't mean she's never going to cum again. Her libido also may be affected by her cycle, which changes throughout the month. I think if you took a break--just a day or two, even--she'd cum around (haha...puns!)
     
  3. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

    Messages:
    16,345
    Likes Received:
    12
    hahaa exactly what i said in the other identicle thread

    take care of her stop fucking her & make her feel better..geez
     
  4. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

    Messages:
    2,417
    Likes Received:
    26
    Same post and same answer as above.
     
  5. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

    Messages:
    5,715
    Likes Received:
    4
    She might be pregnant.
     
  6. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

    Messages:
    16,345
    Likes Received:
    12
    ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yes very good point

    congrats dad
    ya wanted to fuck her 4 times a day well now your realizin what fuckins for..lol
    good luck & hope ya grow up & act respooncibly
     
  7. .Hannah.

    .Hannah. Member

    Messages:
    935
    Likes Received:
    4
    Okay. He is acting responsibly by trying to get others' opinions. Why the hostility..

    Maybe she's also led him on and gotten caught up in the moment, wanting the sex as often as him but then finding she can't cum at the end. You guys don't know that, or the dynamic or the details of what went on. It was quite a brief post. It also takes two to have sex. I highly doubt that he's fucking her, or rather raping her against her will (and sick self) so chill out.

    LTP, either way, I think you should be talking to her and asking her how she feels. She's the only one who can help you. People here (including myself) will only jump to conclusions esp without more of the story.
     
  8. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

    Messages:
    16,345
    Likes Received:
    12
    hannah your right was being harsh..
    just got an image in my head of the poor girl burning up with fever, coughing & puking & him just worried biout making her cum

    its just the mental image ..shes sivck u should be pampering her not tryin to have sex with her

    but i know its hard & sometoimes i wanna have sex when my pasrtners not in the mood & ya just gotta accept it & take care of theyre needs b4 u think about your own
    & if shes sick srx isnt what sheneeds
     
  9. .Hannah.

    .Hannah. Member

    Messages:
    935
    Likes Received:
    4
    Ah I know what you mean, and I agree with you too SoaringEagle. I guess it's hard when you're both wanting sex.. it's kind of a let down I guess if your partner doesn't feel good afterwards (when you both wanted it initially) but also sort of a nobrainer if they don't feel good. It may be something else bothering her too or on her mind, who knows? Just talk to her, I think.
     
  10. His Eden

    His Eden Queen of Mean

    Messages:
    1,030
    Likes Received:
    164
    If she is sick it is likely the cause....

    Don't put any "why aren't you cumming" pressure on her! I know when I am sick the last thing I tend to give a damn about is his bruised ego because my normally stellar sexcapades are lacking.
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice