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This happen to me all the time, when i was in high school, uni and now in my working years. Recently, it gets worse when i realised most of these guys are married men....

 

I feel the same, but I dunno, the odds are that you will fancy straight guys, purely because there's more of them. If you're attracted to the more masculine type of guy, it's something you're going to run up against.

 

No, say when there's a strg8 acting gay & strgt guy in a room, i still tend to get attracted to the latter one.....Does that explain why so many gay guys are still single? Lol...

 

Heh, this happens quite a lot to me too. I think you should go to a gay bar or something where you can be sure all the guys there are gay. I dont know really, but like SelfControl said, there are many more straight guys than gay guys.

 

At the risk of getting all analytical and prejudicey this early in the morning, I don't think it's just the force of numbers. If you're just attracted to the cocks of guys, then yeah, I guess you've got the same chance of fancying a gay guy as a straight guy. If you're attracted to masculinity, in personality/behaviour, I don't think it'd be a massive injustice to say that most gay guys aren't like that.

 

Selfcontrol, point noted! You are such genious....So it's no so bad afterall. I went to the office this morning and realised my God, am actually surrounded by 99% strgt guys (at least i think) no wonder i'm confused!!

Anyone had relationship with a gay relationship with a strgt guy before?

 

Hi all, i'm new here. And I don't know if this is the correct place for this so if it isn't move it.
I was curious if anyone has ever "seduced"(don't' know if that's really the right word for it) a straight guy and if you did, how. Just would like to get a story or two and maybe some advice.

One of my close friends I am attracted to (wow starting to talk like Yoda now lol), we have this very strange connection as in (wow don't laugh lol) sort of "telepathy?" If that's even the right word (sorry my vocab isn't really working at 1 AM for me). Well I mean we are like twins, we finish eachother's sentences and think the same exact things at the same time. All the time. It happens even when we are miles away from eachother. Well I'm pretty sure he's homophobic but is there any type of way around that? I mean, i don't mean to be selfish, I just want to maybe have some i guess brotherly love one night you know? Sorry my wording f*cks this whole message up but if you understand, can you please give me some advice? Thanks

 

Arrange a sleep-over and get him while he's tired. It'd be a lot easier and probably more effective than getting him drunk. Most people won't say no to a blowjob from the dog first thing in the morning, let alone one of their mates.

 

Ok...I understand whats being said , but....if a person is totally straight..I dont know that they could be seduced into a gay act . Maybe a stright person who is curious....or who has denied having any Bi feelings.....but I dont think a 100 per cent straight person could be seduced into gay play at all.

 

Seeing as most gay people want the straight community to respect their sexuality, attitudes of trying to turn straight people gay do us no favours.
A few years ago a gay guy in Brighton got killed in a straight bar, he only ever went into straight bar toilets and came on to people he thought where straight, I'm not saying thats right, for one moment, however thats the worst thing that can happen if you try and screw with peoples minds
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So I am a woman,and I am wondering is there any way of seducing a gay man or is it just a lost cause?I seem to always be attracted to gay men I think its cause they have a feminine side and i also like females,so yea they seem really hot to me.Any suggestions?

 

I can think of two options.

1) Think "Madam Butterfly" only in reverse.
2) Get a sex change operation.

 

I turned you gay did i not?
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Yep, proof positive that approach #1 can be effective.

 

it was traumatic but you gave in eventually
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I'm a woman though who wants to attract a very gay man...

 

Maybe you could score a bunch of Broadway tickets and use those as a seduction tool.

 

u know he told me that if I grew a penis then we'd talk I felt so bad.

 

Then I'd go with option #2

 

I see your point, and yeah, hitting on people you know are straight is dumb. Not dumb enough that you should be killed, obv, but dumb.

That said, we shouldn't have to assume that someone's straight purely because they don't explicitly state that they're a homo. That's called "heteronormative". It's not nutty to be attracted to someone and to ask them out if you're not sure one way or the other and can't be arsed to trawl around trying to find out from their mates or whatever. The idea that it's okay for someone to be offended just because you asked them is kinda gash.