Hypothetical situation, of course. Say, you broke up with a significant other about a month ago and out of nowhere someone you used to date (or sleep with) called you up and wanted to go out for a drink. Now, this someone was a person that played games with you in the past (a little under two years ago) and stopped talking to you out of nowhere. You had a great time with this person, but they never wanted a commitment and you, at the time, did. Now you don't want a commitment..and you are unsure of their motives. Would you go out for a drink with this someone? Would you tell them to screw off? What would you do?
i would go out for drinks...but i'd be mindful of the crap they played in the past and if i sense anything happening or stupid games being played, i'd call it a night with them and leave who knows, it just might be an innocent get together for a drink...maybe not.
Hmmm, no sense in getting caught up in head games again. However, just a drink wouldn't be too bad, maybe he's changed, you never know.
Not sure if men like that change...but...you never know. He's a nice guy, but just really caught up in himself and his job. We always have fun when we go out...but it was always on his terms... I'm thinking it would be fun to do it on MY terms this time
This is really more of a girl question than a guy thing because If a former girlfriend called me and asked me to go out (as long as she's still hot) I'm there! Hotwater
Just for a drink? I would probably go, but I'd definitely be on guard so as not to get wrapped up in any new games. In general, I'm all for second chances, as people are ever-changing.
Meet him for drinks and when he thinks he has a chance tell him about your new crush and ask for his advice
