hi all just wondered if any one has had this happen to them i class myself as bi i like men as well as woman ,,,i have a long term male partner who is ok with it all.. but over the last 4 years i seem to of lost my bi radar !! i used to work as a dancer so a lot of woman i worked with where very open about this now im finished with clubs and gay bars. i have since found no one i dont really go around trying that hard but now as i call it in a normal job with people around that would not understand me i find it hard to get out there i lost most of my friends once i moved so i cant drag any mates of to a gay bar. i find if i go online most "bi" woman are bi because there husbands want 3sums or just to impress there hubbies/bf...(god i sound bitter lol) all i want is a nice plumpish full of life (not to much life i like to be in bed b4 9pm now days lol) lady that can have a laugh etc is that too much to ask now days ,,cant belive its gone as far as i have to ask for pulling tips lol,,,oh well xx thanks xx