so check this out , i found a bunch of lesbian porn on my gf's computer and it turns me on that she looks up lesbian porn, so what do i do about it. When I ask her about how she feels about girl on girl she says its gross and so on yadi yadi. I don't know what to think of this. We have amazing sex and are pretty kinky but never had other girls come in or anything. so I donno how do I get her to addmit to her maybe liking girls or at least being opened to the idea. maybe she just likes lesbian porn i donno. please help me out. thanks all
so what? doint do a damn thing 1st off you invaded her privacy by checkin up on what shes looking at 2nd lots & lots of girls like lesbian porn some are lesbians others bi others straight 3rd she maybe bi or lesbian but not confortable admitting it to anyone even herself 4th & most important your only thinking about what u can get out of this.. a threesome.. & not giving a shit how shed feel about u knowing she likes girls.. ya bring it up & you'll probly be dumped for a girl.. lastly ..trying to force a 3some is incredibly dumb if it happens it happens but trying to convince her to have 1 probly wont work & if it does she'll only realize she dont need you
I wasnt looking for porn on her computer, i was just using it and she had the links saved in her drop down toolbar. as far as the threesome goes i was just thinking if she would like to have one if she is into it, i would like her to be comfortable with her sexuality. i wouldnt try and force a threesome in any way. i've had threesomes before but not with this gf. i dont think its a big deal so thats why i woulnt force it, but if she wants one i would want to fullfill her fantasy
well.. you qalready asked if she likes girl/girl & she flat out said no its gross odviosly shes eithrer not into it or doesnt want u to know she is if she is she'll reveal it when shes confy revealling it i wouldnt even ask
I know a lot of straight chicks that watch lesbian porn. That doesn't mean she wants pussy. She probably told you she thinks it's gross, because if she said anything else, you would assume she's a dyke and wants a threesome. Durr.
shell come out on her own about it eventually. maybe you could ask her if she would mind watching some porn before sex and make sure its a threesome with two girls and a guy.....
agreed completely if shes not comfortable tellin gyou then shes not comfortable telling you. that your mind goes straight to how you can get her to admit liking women and want a threesome... yeah. not cool. a lot of straight women prefer watchign lesbian pron because its not just some guy jackhammering in a gynecological shots like a lot of hetero porn is
My gf likes watching gay (guys) porn. She's totally in love with it. She says it fascinates her. You should see the look on her face... she sorta glows when it's mentioned. :/
I like watching other girls masturbate and would love to be in a mutual female-female masturbation scenario, but I'm just extremely open-minded sexually. I couldn't ever see myself in a relationship with a girl and I'm too jealous to open up for a threesome, but there's just something about watching anyone (male or female) getting themselves off that gets me going. I don't really consider myself bi, maybe bicurious, but I agree with most of the posters here, she may have no interest in actually messing around with another girl, but just think it's erotic to watch it. It could mean she's bi, it could mean nothing. The best you can do is leave it at that.
Have you confronted her about the lesbian porn you found on her computer? My guess is she is curious. It's something that's on your mind, and it's obviously something on hers. I would bring it up and reassure her that it's cool you don't mind and that the thought turns you on. I'm thinking she is turned on by girl on girl activity, and it's probably just a phase she's going through or a fantasy that she wants to keep as just that, a fantasy. A she's probably not into the whole threesome thing because just the thought of sharing her man with another woman makes her insanely jealous. But it can't hurt to ask, especially not with the evidence you found
