Can anyone tell me, if a bi guy has had alot of male lovers, can he ever be happy if he meets the right woman, or will he always be wanting a man??
depends onthe guy. some are never happy. some suck at monogmay. some love having only person theyre in love with and ist not about gender but about who the person is inside
I can be and am happy with a woman. Although I have had more female lovers than male lovers in the past... But I agree with the other poster, depends on the guy.
I had three male lovers; I loved them then and I love them now, but we do not have sex. I have had two other female lovers whom I loved then and now, but we do not have sex. I met the lady who has became my wife and she was the person who was willing to bet her life that life with me would be richer together than apart; I was also willing to take that great step. I am very happy and I do not cheat. Life is choices and a choice for "til death do us part" for me meant for me that the homosexual part of my complex sexuality is alive only in my fantasy world. I miss the feel of a man's body next to mine and more; the old urges remain and the memory of the joy I knew once on the gay side of my sexuality is a dear treasure. \
Married bi guy here. I'm quite happy with my wife and would never stray. For me, it's not about wanting to be woth both genders, but that gender doesn't matter when finding true love. For me, my true love ended up being a woman.
I'm in a relationship with the opposite sex. I wouldn't want to stray. I guess you'd consider me bi.. and still think about women.. but in all reality.. I found the love that I was craving and that's what really matters. When it comes to love, I don't discriminate; love is what we're all looking for. I just happened to find it in the opposite sex; worked swimmingly, really..! In my experience you can love one person exclusively. It's the same with straight people; it's just a matter of whether you can keep a monogamous relationship, really.
i am bi but the only experience i have of samesex dating is my bi guy friend who dated another boy for a short while. i don't really know much about it, but it turned out the guy was a jerk and crushed my friend. so that ended in disastor. i can't speak from my own expierience because i've never dated someone of the same sex. actually i've never dated the opposite sex either so im no help there either. in all honesty, i am probably the same as you - i probably would prefer to have a husband and have kids with him. but if my true love is another woman i would be a happy bunny too. good luck.
I want to find a soulmate, a woman who loves MFMs and is turned on by guys going down on each other. I'll marry her if I can find the right one.