In a relationship, a partner will always tend to take the good things for granted and hold grudge on the few mistakes. And that is a fucking huge problem. I admit I have that problem too, which is why I'm here; I am pissed about it. There are more than just a few things I could complain about, but one major issue is her inability and or unwillingness to express how much she cares. It's a problem that either she needs to fix or I have to get used to or a little bit of both. But why damnit, why is it so goddamned hard!?!?!?
I wouldn't say a partner would always take those things for granted or hold grudges. Some people do and no one is perfect. Um, have you tried talking to her about things honestly and calmly when you're not upset?
I usually charge for relationship advice. Still some people don't like to talk about how they feel. If she loves me, I'd say I'd never need to hear it. But not everyones like that either. Tell her you want to know how she feels, but don't force it out of her. You shouldn't undervalue your own feelings, but you don't have to force her to talk about it if she doesn't want to. If your completly comfrotable about how things are going, they'll go much smoother. It's close to a promise.
if a person has issues expressing how they feel or how much they really carea bout someone, usually its because theyve been hurt really badly in the past. pateince youn ggrasshopper
