What do YOU think?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Nymphette, Mar 22, 2007.

  1. Nymphette

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  2. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    one's willin gto touch a person of the same gender in a sexual way, the other just isnt annoyed by people being interested in their same gender - but they arent interested in their same gender as anything more than friends
     
  3. Nymphette

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  4. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    looking isnt the same as touching
     
  5. paintitblack

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    hmmm i'm straight - i have done some stuff with girls and i wouldnt mind bringing another girl to my bed but i could never have any romantic feelings with girls or date one.

    so i think it's not about sex it's about feelings
     
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    I consider myself Bi because ot only can I sleep with other girls I can fall in love with one and hold out a relationship. But I think really it all comes down to personal opinion on the matter.
     
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    I am bi, and although I tend to prefer men, I have had relationships with women, I dont think that its nesassarily to do with feelings but desire, in that you can be profoundly attracted to a person of any gender, and be completely comfortable with sexual contact with them, but not want to have a relationship or romance, its still a sexual attraction, I think if you couldnt bring yourself to be sexual with the same gender no matter how attracted you were then straight would be a fitting definition!

    I like the term bi curious! there is enough curiousity to bring into a sexual situation but not enough to make it a lifestyle!
     
  10. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Open minded straights don't go searching for the same sex like bisexuals do. They just accept it if it comes.
     
  11. verseau_miracle

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    Im straight and im open-minded but something tells me thats not what youre talking about here. Although i have same-sex fantasies as im sure pretty much everyone does. But id never do anything sexual with a woman
     
  12. wanderin_blues

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    i agree totaly with this. im also strait, but have done stuff with girls and would enjoy being with a guy and another girl. or two. ;)
     
  13. forwardventure

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    My view exactly. I consider myself straight, but I won't rule out the possibility that the person I'm meant to be with (my twin flame, soulmate, etc.) might be a girl. Seriously, love is strange, and who am I to insist that my soulmate, someone I've never met, is definately male? So while I'm not looking for a female, I'm open to fate and possibilities.
     
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    All of you have given some great suggestions. I can relate to the suggestions of paintitblack, bansidhe, and toolmaggot. At different points in my life, I've believed each one of these descriptions.

    One fact for sure is that there is a large grey area in between. I'd have to say that clinics or medical practices would distiguish a bisexual by whether or not the person is open to sexual contact with both genders in the future, even if it is not planned. It's the concept of being willing to have sexual contact with them.
     
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    I am a young bisexual women. And people have always asked me simlar questions to the one persented here. I, like Banishde tend to perfer men but have had realtions and affairs with women. I think it is about feeling it is about the lifestyle and the and need to persue people of both sexs.
     
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    I am a young bisexual women. And people have always asked me simlar questions to the one persented here. I, like Banishde tend to perfer men but have had realtions and affairs with women. I think it is about feeling it is about the lifestyle and the need to persue people of both sexs.
     
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    I am a young bisexual women. And people have always asked me simlar questions to the one persented here. I, like Banishde tend to perfer men but have had realtions and affairs with women. I think it is about feeling it is about the lifestyle and the need to persue people of both sexes.
     
  19. sarathustra

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    I'm not sure what the difference is but i'd consider myself an open minded straight and not a bisexual even though i've had sex w/ a few girls. Its not that i didn't enjoy it, in my mind sex is sex, but i definitely prefer men and would never date a girl and except for those few times (and drugs where involved) i don't really do things w/ girls. I do consider girls more aesthetically pleasing though. But thats cause we are :p
     
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