I love my boyfriend. I really do! And I want to spend the rest of my life loving him. He is the sweetest, most adorable person ever! That was about my feelings. Now, this other guy, he's in my school and I know he likes me. Yes - I like him. He is beautiful, and of course - after 1 year and 4 months, someone other wants to have me. I like that feeling. He is trying to make me laugh, he's hugging me and stuff.. I enjoy a lot! I'm not planning to have anything with this other guy, he is cool and all but I really, really am in love with Boko. The stupid thing happened yesterday. When I was with my bf a sms message arrived and I told him to read it while I was playing game on his mobile phone. The sms was: Anastazija darling I have no credit on my phone so I'm writing you from here. Kissesssss******** I was like - Jesus Fucking......................... I changed my voice, started dt... dt... mhmmm... well... My bf didn't tell anything, he just asked me who this guy is and I was explaining, told him at least 3 fifferent stories. And FUCK! Now he thinks I'm cheating at him! And I'm not! I love him truely! And he loves me too! And it hurts him as much as it hurts me! I'm all fucked up! We were talking this morning and he is like OKay, but you know.. That sarcastic OK thing. And last night I couldn't sleep, I was talking with a friend of mine and crying and.. Aaaaaaaah! I feel guilty becouse I really like this other guy. And I don't know what to do. With myself and my feelings and this ugly pain I feel! Grrrr, I hope you'll never feel as I do! peace
Getting attention from someone new can be quite flattering, but taking it to the next level would be just plain stupid in my opinion. You have a great relationship (based on what you said in your post), a loving boyfriend, who cares about you and you would ruin the whole thing if you were to cheat on him with this other guy. Just ask yourself, is it worth it? Be honest with your boyfriend. Only you can know whether you like this guys because he makes you feel attractive and desired or because he's got a potential to become someone special for you.
attention from new boy is good... but it can potentially break up the only good think you may ever have. assure your bf that it is him you only have eyes for. do something that will clarify this with him. do something increidble. make him feel loved... that is... if you want to keep him. you have to decide what will make you happier? if you really want to try things with this other guy, why not ask your bf to take a break? you have to accept that if you do something with this other guy he may not take you back. if you honestly are in love with your boyfreind then you wouldnt really like any other guy. i say all this... but its only my opinion. i have a horrible horrible love life and i make terrible desicions myself... think carefully... do what comes from your heart.
my advice to you is to stop thinking what people think for a second and find out for yourself which one you really want to be with ... if its your boyfriend you need to let your other frind know that you love your boyfriend and that nothing can become of you two,... and not in a mean way .. thats not nessicary... just let him know that you love him and dont want to leave him... of course its going to feel nice to be wanted... and maybe at this point of being with someone for so long it gets normal to be wanted like that and something new is exciting... but is it worth it...?
Thanks guys! By the way, I talked with this other guy this night - he is cool and all, but we were talking about his ex girlfriends and stuff and he is definitely not a guy with whom you can be in a relationship. So definitely I must not do anything stupid! Only one thing is scart - we will go on 7 day trip with our school. It can be very... Inpredictable! However, thanks again! I love you all
Maybe you can talk to him and persuade this other guy to join the circus as the guy who gets fired out of a canon - then you just sneak up one day and load the canon with 400 kilos of dynamite rather than 20 kilos of gunpowder and that way he will be in Hong Kong in about two hours after he gets shot out the canon and you will never see him again - If you find out that really you love him rather than Bozo or whatever your boyfriends name is - then you can get fired out of the canon in the same way - it would be perfect and would make a good love story. Otherwise if that is not practical - tell him you are really a man and that you only like gay guys - then he will fall in love with someonelse
wow, that was stessful reading so Im glad others had answers yea I'm just not that grown up yet I guess to relate lol reaklly though, thats a head full 17....drunk and listening to Metallica for the most part and people say thats negative..but no it was good yes i just couldnt deal with that, maybe when I grow up peace man
it's hard really. but i think it's because you are young and having that attention is a great boost for any ego, but really it's up to you on how you feel at the end of the day. do you really feel like you could withstand that attention and continue to feel the way you do with your current boyfriend? high school in general with pressures and assortments could alter your feelings but its all on you and your feelings that really matter.
