Dating Outside Of Your Race...Could You???

i am not immediatly attracted to people of other races... i am not racist... but i love blonde hair blue eyes... its athing i always have had... its what i look for... but if i fall in love with someone else then it wouldnt bother me...

 

I'm white. My ex-husband was white. My boyfriend is white. But if either of them had been black/yellow/red/whatever, it wouldn't have bothered me -- though I'm so pale I make the moon look dark, so it might look kind of funny at first. Regardless, color was never an issue with me.

My brother (also white) is dating a black woman. When he called me and started telling me about her, he said, "There is one thing. She's.... of a different ethnic background."

*short pause*

"What, is she alien," I asked.

"No, she's black," he said.

"And?"

He was worried (for some bizarre reason) that I'd be upset or bothered or whatever. I don't know why, I'm the most open-minded one in the family. I had to laugh at him though. I think more than anything he was looking for at least one person to say "That's okay" or something. Our family is ultra-Catholic and I think he worried it would bother someone. But she's been pretty much accepted into the family without batting an eyelash.

 

The only reason I put maybe is because I am married and if god forbid that ever change yep the race wouldn't matter to me I am quite the mix myself if I look back through my family history, so how could I set myself to date one nationality or the other? People are people you can not control who you fall for though like one of the other posters said I would avoid the axe murders like the plague. In love there should be only one race likesome one else said the human race.

 

i love the "eurasian" look. They sort of look a little bit Italian, with a hint of Asian. mmmmm thats nice.

 

My late wife was blond haired and Irish blue eyed, as are my kids (I also have blue eyes), as was my first girlfriend after my wife died.

But my current girlfriend of 2.5 years is Chinese, with those wonderful eyes and that full head of luxurious black hair on her head, but little hair on the rest of her body. Her skin is so silky, and she has never had to shave. And her breasts are natural, and just the right size...

 

Why ever would that bother me?

 

No hang-ups whatsoever. I don't know if it's a big deal in other countries but here anyway there's nothing taboo about it. I've been with a Muslim girl, a Spanish girl, an Egyptian girl, an Irish-African-American girl (long story) and naturally enough plenty of Irish girls.

 

black, mexican, brazilan, (first nations)native american and white. never fooled around with any asians, finding a good lookin asain woman is pretty hard

 

People are people. Hell one day there prolly won't even be different races anymore.

 

you see, i have the issue with my parents being racist. it bothers me alot.
but i dont see any issue whatsoever with dating someone of a different race. its a chance to learn alot more and meet new people. i'd go for it anyday.

 

This is fucking retarded. There is only ONE race. THE HUMAN RACE. Why do you ask if someone would date with someone with a slightly different physical appearance as though it is something so amazing or wrong?

Like "Would you ever fuck a dog?" it sounds like that.

 

Ditto here. I'm probably as white as can get and my parents are absolutely against mixed marriages - apparently the difference of cultures makes your future life difficult! So that's quite a problem coz the hottest, most attractive guys I've met have been Asian or half-Asian (White-Japanese mixes are absolutely to die for), Indian, etc.

Have happily dated white guys as well, but found that they've got to be really something for me to like them long-term. [Absolutely no offense intended to all the white chappies here Love having them as friends]

 

but of course.

 

of course i could

 

what about outside your species?

 

me personally i am mixed, my mom white my dad black and from my own experiences childhood sucked but life goes on. i have dated all types of races but i find that i am most attracted to white guys.

 

Could?
Already have.

 

Hell yea i would, iv seen asians, africian americans, mexicans i can go on. They all have beautiful women

 

heck yeh..there r some pretty hot guys oot there!

 

I live in an area in which immigration is very common, I meet people from Morocco, United Kingdom... so I wouldn't mind if I date with someone from other cultures. I'd prefer that.