how many of you get turned on talking about your partner's sexual past...like first orgasm, fisrt time sex, etc...maybe even a recollection of some really hot sex he or she had once?...
Well, both myself and my bf were only with one other person before we got together, so any experience we talk about was "firsts". But our sex life together is phenomenal, so I don't need to hear about his times with her -- ours is better.
It is important for every couple to have at least a general discussion about their past sexual histories, to determine if STDs are a problem, and to determine what your partner's likes and dislikes sexually are. If you want to go deeper into each other's sexual past, that would depend on how secure you feel with each other.
turned on? nope. sometimes a little curious but its nto a turn on. and i actually find a lot of the 'first time' type q's on here rather creepy (ie first sex when/where/how, first masturbatoin when/where/how/whatover/orgasmorno? etc)
Definately not a turn on. Hearing about his past sexual relations usually makes me feel horribly jealous and insecure. The funny thing is, me and my guy were discussing the girls he slept with, and it turns out that two out of the three were girls I was good friends with back in school, and somehow I don't have a problem with it or feel jealous in this case. lol
no not a turn on, and with my current sexual partner, that would be a bloody never ending conversation, the dirty old git! I am curious on some levels but generally leave it well alone, I dont really wanna know, Have enough with his current sexual relations with out going into his past!
But toolmaggot, you're the kind of open-minded girl that seems to have an exciting past. He must be missing out by not knowing.....lol.... Yes, I'd like to know about those things. I know, it can be dangerous, and it may set up mental hurdles for your partner, but I enjoy knowing. It may make up for lost time with them, when you wish you could have been with them sooner. I would certainly say that curiousity drives me, but I'd probably get turned on also.
Actually, I have almost no past prior to my current nugga. I 'dated' a kid in like, 8th grade for about a month and gave him head maybe three or four times. I nailed one of my friends when we were boofy blitzed. But other than that, fuckass is one of the only people I've shared myself with. I really am boring once you peel off the first few stinky layers.
My husband has never been with another woman, but sometimes I do fantasize about him having intercourse with another woman when I masturbate. If he did have a sexual past, he might be a better lover due to having more experience! But he is very reluctant to try new things-I think I am slowly convincing him to, though.
I hate hearing my partner talk about his sexual past, but i do want to know anyway. But only if he says they all were terrible and I am the best and he's really in love with me. The thing is there was this one girl he was really in love with when he was a teenager and I often wonder if they had better...more passionate, intimate loving sex than he and I do. I fucking HATE those worries!!! Grrr stupid evil slags kill 'em all.
My partner is pretty groovy. He's never had a condom break on him and he's done some pretty kinky shit. So I felt safe. He's very proud of me for making it this far when other kids are losing it at 12 and 13 these days and such. He lost his at 11....
As mentioned above. A part of me wants to know, however, i get jealous. So, we don't really talk about it too often.
How would you determine if the information related by your partner is really true? Realize, the polygraph is the best most scientific method for determining credibility but not for proof of fact. So,why even bother to inquire about his/her past?
Just like a car. The mileage matters. Unless she is like a pristine muscle car. Sometimes you can tell the miles.
I dont find it a turn on because the chick my boyfriend was with before me is a total co and we hate one another.
i ask all the time, I dont like to, but i ask anyway, that determines if shes a slut or not. and if shes even worth fucking my dick... Lionman nailed it, its like a car, miles do count...
