So yesterday at about 12 am i was talking online with one of my friends from school(he knows im gay, and yesterday he told me he was bi) and so he starts talking about a really hot guy who has the same name as me. We also have been best friends for years now and ive had a crush on him for a while. My question is do you think i should make a move or should i just let our friendship continue?!? thanks
Maybe just wait a little bit. See how he behaves around you at school and notice if he does anything to hint that he likes you. I think he probably does like you, but you are both kinda youngish to start sleeping with one another (not that you said you were going to do that). I don't know if you should make a move or not though, just see how things go.
Okay. Well lets see. Do you think you're ready for a ...more-than-friends relationship with someone else? How old is your friend? And when do you turn 14?
I agree Do you know of any instances in the past that would suggest he likes ya? I say you...offer him an emu-egg giftbasket. It always works. Trust in the emu.
first love...*sigh* those were the days. i think it has potential, i think it COULD BE something very sweet. don't pressure, don't expect more than he's willing to give. when i was in high school i suddenly developed a heavy flirtation with this beautiful girl named sarah. but she got scared all of the sudden and got back together with her boyfriend. to be honest, that's happened to me a few times, and i can be pretty confusing, sometimes hurtful. but this is a pretty sensitive issue, especially at that age. it may take some people a long time to be okay with it, especially if their families are intolerant. thankfully my family was ALWAYS tolerant, so it wasn't a conflicting issue for me. there was no shame involved. i've been very fortunate.
