Pregnant and ?

Discussion in 'Parenting' started by OleFlowerMan, Jan 31, 2007.

  1. FinnishButterfly

    FinnishButterfly JennyJelly

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    Crud, why don't you back off the girl, maybe you should try living your own life before you start trying to judge others. A lot of people thought I was a screw up, but I just turned out to be stronger than the rest of them. I've done more crap in my life than 90% people who tried to judge me. I got pregnant when I was 17, I had the baby, that girls my life. I can't have children anymore. If I didn't have her, I wouldn't of ever had a child. Honestly, my husband and I are now looking into adoption as a matter of fact.

    You can't judge people by their age, you have to judge a person by their actions. It's a matter of intellect, not numbers.

    Much love, bro.
     
  2. Zadria

    Zadria Member

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    My Mum was 17 when she had me. He parents disowned her for the first 15 years. They no regret doing it and missing out on much of her and her children (their grandchildren's) life.
    Don't make that mistake. Just be their for her.
     
  3. saffronfrancisburnet

    saffronfrancisburnet Member

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    hi,its hard to let go.

    my 16 year old has just told us she is to be married next year.not quite the same but just as hard a step...
    letting go of the child to view the adult you brought into the world....

    this is all called growing up,
    you will know what to do,once your daughter has found her way . it seems so young ,but look at the world its hold on being young and to live life.
    what ever you fear ,im sure you know your daughter well
    enough to trust her path from this moment.
    if anything dont do more ,do less i found this helps them to
    act like an adult....it sounds harsh but believe me
    we are old folk to them,but we can catch all if they fall.

    good luck and remember what did you feel ..
    like at that age...that the world was for the seeing...
    lovenpeace from saff
     
  4. terasynthetic

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    I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant, and my father was elated. Although, he hated the fact that it happend so early, he was happy that he would soon enuogh be a grandfather. He loves Sophie to the ends of the Earth. And he supports anything I decide to do, as does my mother.

    You need to support her in every way that you can, and let her know that you are there. because that's what's she's going to need.
     

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