I admit I get alittle jealous...

Does this just make me insecure? I'm a strong woman, but part of me at least is insecure. But arn't we all? Or is mild cases of jealousy a mere by product of survival. If the family unit is broken, much can be at risk in the tribe and in the home. Better to keep another away that may bear gifts better than yours, only if the one at your side may be tempted.

So old trade of the book and inheritedly natural? or only a symptom of the insecure?

Personally I feel I am getting over it. I know my spouse would never cheat, in a million years because he loves me, but I have a long history of not so great men, and my own father cheats on my mother and says it's perfectly natural for a man to have urges towards many women. I see all the sinfullness in the world and the own beauty in my bedroom. Am I a fool for doubting one, or the other.

 

simply put, how many people admit to jealousy. Doesn't have to be alot. Whatever.

And do you think it's natural, or just a symptom of insecurity.

 

IMO, jealousy is natural and it is felt by everyone. I think it is healthy unless taken to extremes because everyone wants to fell that there partner is protective of them on some level. Usually when jealousy is fought against by the other person they are hiding something. Thats my experience anyway. It still has to be controlled.

 

Jealousy is certainly natural to an extent
but it seems to fade away the more secure you feel
it also can block you from feeling secure

my suggestion is that you do not focus on your jealousy too much, or it will only make it worse
just rmemeber that he cares about you and would never want to hurt you

 

Jealousy really boils down to someone wanting to keep what is theirs.

There is nothing wrong with that if it does not get out of control.

It is, however, bad if your life and thoughts become centered around keep what is 'your's' (or atleased what seems to be; if your man wants out then there is not much you can do).

BUT you say that you two are deeply in love and that is great! Hold on to him, make sure he knows that you care about him each and every day. I wish you the best of luck.

 

I dont think the passionate and fiery personality can be devoid of jealousy....

They go together often....

But I agree.....holding on is no good...

By nature, I am am jealous in love....so I have had to work on this to
prevent pain to others...

At times.....its been very challenging...

And the irony is, I never attract jealous or fiery men!!!