Attn: Lesbians - Butch or Femme?

Petty highschool kids? Aww, mama, come on! I'm the quite similar and still in highschool. Make-up is kept to a minimal (ie. only on special occasions) and the only heels I have are about to be replaced by a comfy, flat pair of dressy shoes to wear with my school kilt.

Yay for fuzzy legs!

And to keep this post on topic, I've got an absolute and total weakness for "butch" girls. I've never really been able to explain it, quite honestly; I just go weak in the knees.

 

All butch here babe!!
Just the way I and my g/f love it.
I am me, love me or hate me, the choice is yours!!
That s my motto!!

 

Touche[insert accent here]!

 

i am both some days i wear make-up and flirt outrageously and other times it is basketball shorts and a muscle shirt and street football with my brothers friends. everybody is both men, women, gay straight and that is because society has decided to gender orient certain character traits that are not nessasarily masculine or feminine. people find it easier to identify others through "what they are" gay, straight, masculine feminine, weak, strong

 

i prefer the term boi to describe myself...not butch but not femme and not a tweener...andro and fulla spunk

 

I would definitely be classified as more feminine, for sure. But I find myself completely attracted to both "femme" and "butch." I think it's the way some girls just carry themselves. Confidence is sexy.

Also, I really don't like the "So, who's the boy in the relationship?" question. Well, we're LESBIANS...We don't like boys. Ah, well...I guess it would be confusing for someone who is so set in boy-girl relationships, eh?

 

yes

 

It seems to me that being gay gives you the opportunity to be something different than the binary choices put by the straight community. I think its much easier to find a man than a woman that accepts me for the style I choose to be; but i'm not attracted to them. Even tho I'm not fem, i get hit on by guys and told by lesbians that they are not attracted to me because i'm not fem or butch. Wish people looked inside a person instead of desiring a role be played in their second hand played out play. When i'm toldd that i don't fit the part i feel like i'm viewed as 2 dimensional, just performing a service.