Hello everyone! well i will keep it short, My boyfriend of 3 years and father of my daughter said to me last night in the middle of a fight, that i have put on allot of weight (yeh i guess i have been working a sit on your ass desk job) and that when i become obese i should'nt expect him to still be around... he reckons he has women throwing them selfs at him at the supermarket and wat not (he is a stay at home dad) the fight was that i didnt want to have sex, we havent had sex for 4 days (o my god!) I was willing to spend the rest of my life with this guy (me 20 him 35) but now i think he is just like all the other "men" out there and you know what FUCK HIM! i pretty much know that he is a just a "man" out for an easy fuck, and doesnt love me for "me" so i guess i will work from that saying to, and i may as well be a "girl" who plays around, and has fun to, you never know i might loose some weight and get to know some co-wokers, any way i feel better now i got that off my chest, by the way im a little Pissed (DRUNK) Cheers, -Erin
There are a lot but not all. Don't put up with someone just trying to make you feel bad about yourself. Your own self respect should put an end to that. If it doesn't then figure out why. So why do you put up with this? Again, I am feeling a self confidence problem here. Lowering yourself will not make you feel better. Hold yourself up and dump the losers out of your life, its easier and you get to keep your self respect.
Men! you're right with the title of your subject. You were just unlucky with your man though. But maybe you can talk to him and clear the subject on him. Ask him your concerns. But whatever he say to you, don't let him lose your confidence. He may just have said it because you didn't want to have sex with him. You might have stepped on his ego. Nevertheless, don't get affected negatively on what he said to you. He should have loved you for whoever and whatever you are. If he can't accept you, then it's his loss, not yours. ____________________ self confidence Free Report reveals how to develop self-confidence. Get it here: http://www-confidence.com/ conversation skills Free Report reveals secrets to making great conversation. Get it here: http://www-conversation.com/
look, it was a bad fight. it was stupid of him to say that shit but it was alos stupid that notn fucking for 4 days resulted in a fight (on both your parts, stuipd). next time you talk to him tell him that really hurt you and you dont appreciate being talked to like that. youre sorry you two ended up inan fight but you cant force yourself to magically get horny when you arent, and you cant magically lose weight (especially since your a mother, sorry but the leftover weight from pregnancy can last for quite a while on some women) i think theres something deeper going on than just non-matched levels of horniness, hes probably feeling unappreciated and probably so are you
listen to me from experience i am a big girl and my bf who is gorgeous has seen me obese and slimmer and he never said a word about my weight ever. we just recently became sober and even in our most drunken , heated arguments he never ever sadi anything about my weight. leave him you don't want to raise your beautiful child around a shallow , scum bag like him. jesus christ you gave birth to his child you would think he would worship the ground you walk on. if i found love then you can to and your a hell of alot younger than me . me 36 my bf 29. i'm telling you if he's disrespecting you now imagin how it will be in 10 years, do u really want your daughter to learn that it's ok for daddy's to say that to the mommy's?
Break-up with him. You are abusing yourself by staying with him. He's a jerk but you're just as bad for being a willing party and listening to it. What would you say if your best friend's boyfriend was speaking this way to her? Treat yourself better and get away. You're never going to meet a nicer guy if you're still holding onto this jerk because you're afraid of being alone. You need to be okay with being alone and as soon as you're not looking someone great will always step into your life because you've learned to respect yourself and people can sense that. I've been with somone who felt like it was okay to comment when I gained weight, even though he wasn't in shape himself. The longer you stay with someone like that the harder it is to forgive yourself for wasting all that time when you find someone who you really like and likes you back just the way you are. Don't waste your time sweety. Life's too short and you're only young and beautiful once. HUGS!
OMG You're baby is so young! You have a right to be fat. You just had a child. BTW I don't think you look at all fat. You're beautiful.
i gotta say i pretty much agree here but if yas were drinkin bein dumb &1 time.. says somethin dumb.. but that is a really fucked up thing to say.. to anyone..& the thing is..its an asshole imndicator... they'll say it to skinny chicks till theyre so skinny they wanna disapear... hes upset cause u wont fuck him..then says cause hes upset about u being fat & making him not want to fuck you.. thst whole hotter girls want me... asshole.. kinda control frealk too i bet? love hed love u no matter what.. 80-500 wouldnt matter.. ya wouldnt argue bout not hsvin sex for 4 days.. & youd never say that.. if u r meant top be together ya will be no matter what u look like but i gotta say it maybe 1 dumb thing not worth splittin a family over... but..it is an asshole indicator.. watchout for more
Tell him to FECK OFF!!! How dare he treat you this way when you are the mother of his child And then tell him you have a couple of hot YOUNG men after you.. What an idiot!!
