get back with your ex?

would you or wont you?

 

I dont have an ex, but i think that it depends on the people and the reason it was broken off.

 

in my case personaly , id sooner walk across a mine field . its almost always a bad idea to go backwards through somewhere that was a problem , than to forge ahead tward the better possibility of good results .

 

I put once it is over it is over
but there are some exceptions

 

Same with me. It will really depend on the circumstances. Like why did we break up in the first place? And am I single at the time? Since I already have a current relationship, I'm not getting back with my ex.

 

theres only one who even has a chance, and while hes a sweetheart and a grea tguy hes no thte guy for me. ithink theres a reason why ive broken up with all of my exes and no mitigatin greasons for me to get bck together with them

 

Yes I would...but I'm a pushover like that.

 

me too *blushes*

 

by knowing you are a pushover, but not ending it, you are also admitting to being lazy and wreckless

 

see that is a hard question. it's really up to you to really decide on that one. you are the one in the relationship and you know how you feel with that person. normally i would say to hell with it, but i have done the second and third chance on a guy and well life is short, sometimes it could turn into a really good thing. but really it depends on your happiness and well-being with the whole situation. just don't forget your feelings before giving in. i have done that and well sometimes it just easy to forget your feelings in sake of another. tricky, tricky!

 

You've never been in love, have you?

 

He probably has been in love. He just doesn't make the same choices you make.

 

i have been back with my ex more times than i can count on my fingers... on one hand... it is a great thing because i love him so much... on the other hand... sometimes our relationship getting back just leads to more hurt.

i love hearing everyones opinions

 

I was trying to maintain some sort of friendship with my ex...But recently we had an argument and I just cut her off. It's sad 'cause I do love her. She is the most important woman in my life so far. But we have a little vicious cycle dynamic we keep going back to and there is nothing I can do. So now I spend entire days without talking to anyone whatsoever.


I did fuck her a few times after we broke up though. But we never commited ourselves again. I miss my cats too...

 

thats sad to hear.
i hope you talk to her again maybe later on if life when the cycle has been removed

 

You're sweet...Thanks for the sympathy, but I ought to look forward!

But seriously, after her, my yardstick for women has gone WAY up. I'm pickier, I think also because I'm older. Regular cutsie girls bore the hell out of me...lol.

 

I'm still fucking most of my exes

 

yes, i agree with dyla

 

i,d climb the highest mountain or swim the longest sea to be with her she is still the most special person in the world to me.

 

No, a couple of them are shiteous human beings.