What do you think my parents will think?

so i was talking to my dad today about how my mom and him still have limitations on how much TV i can watch and my dad said, "You're at an age now when you could smoke cigarettes and there's nothing I could do to stop you, but you dont because it's an irresponsible thing to do."

What do you think he would you say if he found I smoked weed?

i knnw that i should know my dad better than anyone but my mind draws a blank when I think about the day he finds out which i know i can't prevent from happening.

 

it sounds like he would lose alot of trust in u and realize hes not the son he though he had a treat u as irresponsible lol

but good luck i told my dad hes cool with it i guess

 

do you want to tell them? the #1 thing you can do to make them 'ok' with it -(if you're buying it - don't tell em that) just let them have the impression that if a friend offers you, you have said yes - anyway - if you can get good grades & do all your chores - like ahead of time, basically, be a dream kid - they could be ok with it, depending on what kind of people they are. some people think its immorral, illeagal, its real black & white & maybe you'd never better tell them, but if there's shades of grey with them, make a nice bargain - tell youself, 'I'm gonna do this so my parents don't worry about me (ruining my life with pot)"

 

Sounds as if you'd get the whole "I'm very disappointed in you" speech, which is way worse than anger in my opinion. I don't know though, my parents are fine with weed but would be really upset if I became addicted to cigarettes. I guess it just depends on ya folks. Good luck.

 

Judging by how well I know your parents, they'll probably tar and feather you.

 

If you still have limitations on the amount of T.V you can watch, I doubt your parents would be supportive of your marijuana use.

 

Well since your dad gave you the 'it would be irresponsible' talk....I'd say he won't think smoking weed is very responsible of you either.

Unless....you have straight A's, never been into any trouble with the law or school, can be depended on completely and have shown your parents how responsible you already are...get a good job, have good friends and see what he says then.

But you have a limitation to your teleision viewing, so I'd say all in all, telling them (folks) you smoke weed, won't go over well in your favor...yet. Give it time.
If you want your parents to view you as a responible person, be one.
*blows kiss too*
Or just be a kid and keep what illegal activities you do a secret like the rest of us have done from time to time.

 

my mom was dissapointed. she smokes too, so i dont know why she dosnt want me to. hippocrite. im not mad at her, she doesnt want me doing drugs, i can see that. but she knows theres nothing really horrible about weed if your smart.

 

I agree with the "Its a need to know basis and they don't need to know"

If you are responsible and respectful no-one will be the wiser.

 

you nean something like what they dont know cant hurt them. i guess i should be really careful not to let them know like i have been. i am a kid who has straight A's but i think if I were to tell them they would destroy any sort of future i might have

wish me luck that they dont find out.