Woman on top?

Yeah, that's true about variety being the spice of life and sex being about love/being equals... It's just kind of hard when you're a natural born submissive trying to act all big lmao

 

As a dear friend of mine once told me.....
"I might not be on top, but I am always in control."

What other positions are there for you guys? Doggy style? Side by side? Break out the Kama Sutra already.

 

You get good DP being on top....and the guys seem to like the view. Bouncing while looking at his toes...works too. I'm a natural Domme, but I like switching too. Whatever works best....

 

Top works nice for the Dom. stuff. But personally unless I'm in the mood for rough, the top can be a little painful.
Have you tried getting into the mind set with foreplay, with you in a more controlling role. Sometimes the right mindset is all you need.

Personally, I love being in control. But also forced submission is cool. It exists but it's just a really personal thing.

 

haha no she's not a "fat chick"

 

I like being on top. I hated it when I started having sex. It literally took years for me to get used to it. I'm not a dom either, but there's something very sexy about watching him laying there. And that's all I'll say.

 

Thanks God, i have long arms.

 

You mean while being penetrated, or before, or after - can not get it

 

Fat Pussy :lol:

 

agreed. I much prefer woman on top but never thought of it as a dominance thang. it's more sensual and I last longer. often we roll over and reverse positions for the grand finale.

 

I was reading down the list, hoping more people on here realize that there are more than 2 positions. WAAAAY more. I even invent new ones when I'm with the right girl, ones that I can't find in any Kama Sutra book

 

as a pothead, i tend to be burnt out by the end of the day, so i usually like the woman to be on top, while i can just rest and enjoy.... but if ya catch me mid day id be up for any position, especially doggy.

 

if you prefer her in a dominant position try working in some role playing, shes the cop and youre the criminal, shes the teacher and your the student in detention... take small steps and see what happens

 

My experience with a former gf exactly. Quite the blast!

 

well sometimes women dont like be on top because they simply dont have the confidence, and are worried that they wont do it right, or wont be pleasing lack of confidence is one of the major inhibitors for a lot of people! I enjoying being on top, but dont very often as I am a complete subbie!

 

are you kidding me? the top is the very best, at lest for me. gosh your girlfriend doesn't know what she's missing. i absolutely love it =)

 

of course i want her on top. here are some reasons.

1. i can grope quite freely that way
2. i'm not doing any of the work (i'm quite lazy)
3. well, shoot, it just feels awesome.


now if only she had a tv on her stomach...

 

I do like guy on top but I'm always down for being on top too I think its fun My significant other LOVES it so its not weird I think alot of man like girls on top as long as it doesn't hurt I'm okay.

 

I (male) like being on bottom once in a while. My ex-gf used to love being on top with me grabbing her ass.

This is something that the girl needs to enjoy, otherwise it wont happen. All you can do is suggest it and hope she will try and enjoy it.

Good luck

 

she usually is on top with reverse cowgirl..great visual me...grab her ass and hips....while she grabs my ankles...and rubs my hairy legs which turns her on