Any girl ever wish or dream about another chick??? not really Are you bi if so?? I don't think it would make someone bi...If you think about girls as much as guys and would date one or whatever...then you'd probably be considered bi how do you know??? just an assumption I wouldn't be concerned with categories though(that is if you are)...just go with the flow.
Thank you for your reply... you see.. i have a b/f now of almost 3 years... and well.. I used to work at this place where a girl worked with me.. we flirted but i dont think she is gay...the thing is i can't stop thinking about her... i have never seen a girl so beautiful and so perfect.... can a straight girl fall in love with another girl... i am afraid to tell her how i feel! i think it would totally shock the living hell out of her... what to do?? what to do??
Dreams? yes Dreams make you bi? No You might be, but just because you have dreams about it doesn't make you bi.
not nessicarily a crush. not sure how old you are but i know plenty of girls my age who (due to typical teenage/early 20s insecurities) idolized another girl. ONe of my friends is totally straight but idolizes this girl because she was just really smart, funny, cool, amazing and absolutely drop dead gorgeous. Not in a sexual way (although i, personally, was attracted to her) this girl was sexy. All from a girl who had waht you might call a 'heterosexual crush' on her. it may just be that. but that doesnt make you bi... doesnt mean you arent, either. but i wouldnt think so
I wouldn't tell her unless you actually wanted something to happen with her. If you are planning on staying with your bf and you just want to tell her to get it off your chest...I wouldn't do it. If she's straight chances are she will react strangely and you might not feel better about the situation. I don't know, that's just my opinion.
i have fantasies about other women all the time... well not all the time but it isnt uncommon. But currently my baby boy is all i need so fantasies is how they stay. I dont get the who gay/bi/straight thing... everyone has the possibility of loving sdomeone else no matter what their sex. ... in other words everyong is bi in their own right... its alldown to who you fancy not what sex they are.
Thanks for your understanding opinions guys! I just can't get myself to answer the question "IF i told her and she was interested would i be?" I think i would... But at the same time... would i?? it confusing i know! I do understand the whole idolizing thing... but i dont think it fits here. I do not wish to be like her ...i just want to get to be real close with her... and be with her..lol.. i think... she is a bit older than me... i am 19..she is like 25 or 26. I just don't know how to rationalize these feelings...
As I've said before, sex (and sexual fantasies) isn't all that makes you bisexual. Its the feelings that you have for another female. If you are in love with this girl, there is a possibility that you may be bisexual. (which really isn't a bad thing and no one can blame ya, because women are fucking hot and oh so beautiful!)
i remember a wet dream i had when i was younger... it was about a really pretty boy of my classroom in hs... dreams are part of us, and sometimes they get to the surface of our actions... fleassy, you look so androginous, and so sexy...!
I believe that everyone is Bi.... I can't say that I trust anyone that says that are either 100% homo or 100% hetro, I don't believe there is such a thing. Now I'm not saying that everyone is 50/50 Bi, I'm probally around 90/10 myself (90 being girlies, 10 being guys), so due to this, I'm looking for some fun with a guy, to see if I enjoy it, and to maybe try level the balance a bit... I think everyone is like this. Labels suck, no one is 'gay', no one is 'stright', everyone is bi, even if only a little bit....
I agree, I think everyone is capable of loving sombody from the same sex and everybody is able to make love with somebody of the same sex just that some choose not to.
