Why did your relationship[s] fail or succeed?

I'm mostly looking for female responses.

Thanks in advance.

 

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we grew apart and neither of us really wanted to put in the effort to grow together again
the sex was bad (more fuckbuddy than real relationship)
he broke up with me (we werent making each other happy)
he moved away
he went back to his ex
he was a flake (always late, promised to change never did, promised the sun and moon but cuold never deliver)

 

me and my ex also grew apart... it got hard to say and do some things. it felt kind of uncomfortable after a while. I guess it's because we took each other for granted. we didn't appreciate each other. i get the blame, though cuz i'm the guy.

 

i wasn't happy and felt uncomfortable in the relationship

 

Fail (how else can it go with me ) - wasn't the real time for relationship for me as it seemed. But in fact he appeared like not being the right one for spending my time with.

Yeah, sounds a little miserably.

 

Some of my exes didnt work out because we were with one another for the wrong reasons (basically just something to do... in more than one sense of the word :/ )

My most missed ex didnt work out because our relationship wasnt accepted by people. we started to forget why we were fighting to stay together.

 

it failed...cuz im a bitch

 

Most of my 'relationships' failed because I didn't know what I wanted. Nor did I know myself well enough to understand what I expected from a relationship. In a nutshell, I got involved with the wrong people. I was young and naive hehehe. But I guess that's another way to learn.

 

*We don't lie to each other--ever--period.
*We have share most interests and beliefs.
*We try very hard never to go to bed angry.
*We make love together-- often and well.
*We were, and remain, each other's best friend.
*We talk frequently.
*We kiss frequently.
*We spend an obscene amount of time together.
*When we argue, we argue until we're done.
*We sleep curled around each other.
*We hold hands when we walk...and when we don't.
*We're commited to each other and our relationship.
*We took vows and meant them forever.
*We are soulmates and recognized each other right away.(Nobody else has to believe this one if they don't want to--but we do)
*We truly care about each other.
*We believe each other.
*We believe in each other.
*We stand by each other--no matter what.
*We do not share our bed with others.(This is not me making a moral judgement, it's just what works best for us personally.)
*Most importantly: We love each other--madly, deeply, passionately, and earnestly.

I hope it helps. It works for us. Peace.

 

Thank you all for replying.

 

u are a female masquerading as a male, why not ask yourself?

 

I have a penis so I guess my opinion is not valid.

 

lol...thats all i have to say...lofl

 

mostly because i get bored with their personallity or they become an asshole, or they cheated.

 

i grew up and found myself and wanted my damn freedom lol.
we were suddenly on two totaly different pages.
he thought my values were stupid.
he was permanently socially conditioned. which is fine, but he had way too much trouble accepting me in my natural state, the way i want to be, and didnt care to try to see it from my point of view.
i was selfish and wanted to live my life alone.
i got bored with him.
all of these things led to me losing all interest in him sexually and of course its all downhill from there

that being said, were now best buddies. i never wanted him out of my life because i care about him and we are on the same level intellectually. its rare that i find someone up to debating with me lol

 

Relationships with Toxic people pretending to be healthy! :ack:

 

mine with da ex was due to family bull and always having a say

his family not mine they seem to no every think you see

and lived in our relationship.


andis gal:H

 

I don't play games and don't stay with people who do and that really helped improve my relationships. Also, only dating people who I am capatible with is a huge deal to me. Why waste time on incompatibility and anything less than a great relationship?
I see some women who are so uptight they can't enjoy the moment or people like me who used to stay in abusive relationships because they are truely dupped into not realizing what a great person they are or could be if they weren't with such a kill joy. I think not staying in bad relationships and persuing potential good relationships is the key to having good relationships...I don't know man call me crazy...I could be wrong...shit stay in good relationships not in bad ones=good relationship ...Like I said I could be wrong