help! lol ok, i dont know what i am.gay, bi ... straight.... confused! im 23 and for the last 4 years seeing a guy on and off, but never an actual RELATIONSHIP sorta thing.. this guy is quite camp in a way plus he has recently came out as bi.. about a year ago i sorta came out to some friends as bi but im just not sure what to do since.... i just dont know how to introduce it into conversation cos 1) i dont go on about him or her being hot blah blah.. cos i just aint that sorta person... 2) i think im more attracted to personailties 3) i actually am shy when it comes to relationships/love etc i have had some crushes on girls, like in work etc... but i never act on them as im not sure if they feel the same about me... arrrgh.. its just confusing..... i do think i get crushes on girls more than guys cos i dont very often meet guys i LIKE like.. i dont imagine often about goin out on dates with guys if ever .. so maybe im gay .. but im thinkin im more just personality selective.. seems liek i always go for a type .. seems to be different ppl i like, they have summit quirky about them etc... what do you guys think plus do you have any ideas about meet new ppl? i did and do still sometimes go to gay bars and clubs but i dont feel part of it as 'bi's' dont fit in as well plus i dont find folk im attracted too ever in gay clubs. i go to some more gay friendly club nights n find them a bit more better than GAY clubs.
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Maybe you are a condensed form of evil from outer space! Naw, just kiddin'. Anyway you should just let thing happen naturally, if you can't find out what you are it means you are not meant to know yet. I thought I was bi once (well, I kinda actually still am)... but time proved to change that somewhat. Now I seem to lean much more towards heterosexuality, although you are older than I am but these things can confuse people in their 40's. Try taking my example and make jokes around everything No, don't. It's probably not that healthy.
Dude, Gay, bi, str8 refers to you usual patterns of sexual behaviour. That's pretty simple. If you usually have sex with other males or with another male, you are gay. If you usually have sex with girls, you are str8. If you can honestly say that you usually have sex with both, you are bi... The operational word here being: usually... SC
KewlDewd66 it isnt that easy. I'm gay but I've never slept with another man, so therefore I prove your theory wrong. There is so much more that goes into figuring out your sexuality than just who you sleep with. I think Samhain had some good advice, but just give it time - you will work things out eventually.
