Hello everyone! well i will keep it short, My boyfriend of 3 years and father of my daughter said to me last night in the middle of a fight, that i have put on allot of weight (yeh i guess i have been working a sit on your ass desk job) and that when i become obese i should'nt expect him to still be around... he reckons he has women throwing them selfs at him at the supermarket and wat not (he is a stay at home dad) the fight was that i didnt want to have sex, we havent had sex for 4 days (o my god!) I was willing to spend the rest of my life with this guy (me 20 him 35) but now i think he is just like all the other "men" out there and you know what FUCK HIM! i pretty much know that he is a just a "man" out for an easy fuck, and doesnt love me for "me" so i guess i will work from that saying to, and i may as well be a "girl" who plays around, and has fun to, you never know i might loose some weight and get to know some co-wokers, any way i feel better now i got that off my chest, by the way im a little Pissed (DRUNK) Cheers, -Erin
Dude... any guy that says he won't be with you cause you put on weight (or are putting on weight) is NOT worth it to be with. I'm serious. Get out while you can.
What a jerk! You don't deserve that...I mean, losing weight is one thing, but if you have someone on your back like that, threatening to leave you, that's just uncalled for. True love=unconditional love.
Yeah it's totally different to be supportive and say to someone "I'm concerned for your health..blah blah" then to threaten to leave and I'm sure you haven't even gained that much anyways. He really does just seem like an ass.
oh my god what a dickhead i can't believe he would speak to the mother of his child like that!!!!!!i know its easy for a stranger to say leave him but seriously your young and have a baby you need to think of what the rest of your life is gonna be like putting up with that kind of abuse (and it is abuse) would it be worse on your own i think not you could do some much better without this bigheaded no respect BUM get rid!!!! take care and dont let him ruin your self confidence keep strong!!!! wishing you love and peace
It's 11 am. I already feel drunk. I haven't drank, though I wish everything was just oblivious to me right now. I don't really care. I'm honest. And I feel like crawling back into bed right about now. I would probably smoke a J or something, but don't feel like putting for the effort to even roll one, nor do I feel like it would do anything for me when I get to this point. At least I'm honest. Fucking People.
Let's put aside the fact that this guy is the king of all asshats for a second... I looked at your gallery, even if if you put on weight, what were you 80 pounds BEFORE you had kids? Please... you're beautiful. OK, back to the asshattery...
okay, seriously, let him find another woman as beautiful as you to support him. there's no call for saying shit like that, even in a fight. any man threatening to leave is a man with one foot already out the door and just looking for an excuse. he's just there because he thinks he can control you by making you feel like he's doing YOU a favor. no, man, let him go. he's not doing you a lick of good.
He's not licking her? well thats just wrong. We DO need to find her a new man. BSR? where are you? You're single aren't you? Better yet, isn't GLM still all alone?
Let me see if I got this right... You are 20..He's 35. You go to work while he stays at home and watches The Price Is Right.. And I assume that's you in your signature pic, so you are an attractive girl.. Ok... So.. What he have here is a 35 year old man, with no job hanging around supermarkets all day. And he's thinking of leaving you... Did I get this right?? I did... Oh.. Ok.. Here's a little help... First of all.. The women make the rules in all relationships. The fact that you can regulate how often he has (or does not) have sex speaks to my theory. You are the one in charge. It's just the women might let us guys think we are. FACT. Since you have no financial interest in his day to day shit.. You'd actually save money by putting his ass on the street. I assume that he's eating the food that you are paying for... And guys shit a lot.. Toilet paper ain't cheap.. I'm sure you're paying for that. If he does not like the way you look... He has to leave. I assure you that you will have a date before he does. Let the hausfraus at the supermarket throw themselves at his feet.. Nothing is sexier than an unemployed idiot. You will probably forgive him for his boneheaded statement..But keep in mind.. You are driving the bus in this relationship. And don't give me that "Stay at home dad" jive. He's got the golden ticket right now.. He's on the gravy train and he knows it.
What you have there darlin' is what Americans call a freeloader. Time to cut that one loose. Root hog, or die.
a guy who even mentions something like that is messed up. he feels he can win with this immaturity when he mentions something that he knows will upset you. guys suck in that sense, they get you the worse in your weakness, especially in vocal abuse like such. i think that if it is really worth it, you should take a break for the sake of your daughter. but at the end of the day, you gotta think about your daughter and your own happiness. good luck!
YOU GUYS RULE! You made me feel so much better about myself! i have got a loving partner, we just dont "Commutate" hahaha he wants more SEX i want more LOVE or FRINDSHIP.. i dont know what you call it these days. i havent had a "best" friend for a long time, you know when you were able to count on your bestfriend for eveything she or he would always be their no matter what... that seems to be different to your "boyfriend" these days!!!! ahhhh maybe i should turn Lezo doesnt seem THAT bad! again it is friday night so im a bit DRUNK (i need some juice for this wine (goon) )
