slut or not

Um, 15 guys by age 18, and two more since then (age 19) Why not just say "17 by age 19"?

No WONDER you're the S&L moderator!!
(It doesn't hurt that you're hot and you have cute-ass feet!)

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

Oh Peaceful Jeffrey. It's hard not to laugh as I type this. A man who is but 14 years older than you. I couldn't count the number of girls, but I guess around 100 sexual partners. Not all of them memorable. But, I wouldn't have done it any other way.

Heavens, some people take sex so seriously. It's two people, naked, in a comfortable place enjoying some pleasure with each other. It's simple really. It doesn't have to be emotionally involving or anything. In fact, and I speak from experience, the casual encounters can be the most awesome, pleasure wise.

Having said that, sex with someone you love is great too. A different sort of great. Not necessarily better than casual sex and not necessarily worse. Just different and great.

Mark

 

openmind - if youre going to make a statement about my lifestyle and personallity, dont go back on it. Don't you have enough confidence in your opinions? You seriously risk your credibility by saying sorry.

fuck, insult me, but have a good reason, and mean it damn it!

 

Hmm, back on the subject.


Its not like she didn't ask for this, I mean the thread "Slut or not?" sorta implies you should give your opinion on how slutty or not she is.

You cant just expect a one sided response.

 

i did not insult you only observe u
and say sorry for i new youd take it the wrong way
in most part i agreed with you
but im sorry for offending you
not for observing u
and you could explain your opinions rather than getting angry
but i guess its your choice on how you react and i wasnt
diplimatic

 

I'm not angry

I puts a smiley there
you know to kinda lighten the mood of the post

please dont think i'm angry

 

especialy with fellow coountry folk
ps Sorry to have offended u

 

well i been reading this thread and figured i'd get my two cents in. i think some people look at sex different than others. when i was single i had sex with about 4 or 5 different guys, all of whom i was attracted to but not in love with, i woldnt fuck any random dude. Anyhow, I don't regret it now and I probly never will... I wold regret it if I had done it for the wrong reasons (ex: getting back at someone, feeling better about myself) but I did it cuz they were hot and I wanted to fuck... end of story! I don't think it makes me a slut, I just know what and who I want. ​

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Ha Ha....did you catch him call you a slut? Please read again

 

I wouldn't say that that's slutty, but I suppose it really depends on the circumstances. When did you become sexually active? Were you in relationships with any of the guys when you had sex with them, aside from friendships? Did you use condoms? Did you pick them up at random or did you know who they are?
Let's pretend you became sexually active at 15 (I know a lot of people start earlier, but let's just pretend you started when you had a good notion of what sex is and it's repurcussions) so, 7 partners in 2 year, theoretically. That ain't bad hon. 7 partners in 2 months might be slutty. Or just lucky, if you still feel good about it.

Only you can really decide whether you feel this is slutty behaviour hon... do you still feel good about it, or do you regret it? Ignore the happy doublestandard people

 

haha...well, I was trying to fake everyone into thinking that I've grown up a little...

And I am the Love and Sex champion.....

 

I completly agree with you

 

lets try a chain of agreeances instead of the constant petty bickering of this sight

 

I had sex twice when I was fourteen... oh Im so ashamed! (Runs off crying like girl)

 

i dont no if that was in agreence or mockery bet each to there own

 

Actually it was a mixture of sarcasm and kidding. I was just foolin. Y'know friendly like?

 

for me a slut is not a girl who's had lots of sex in her life, is a girl who has lots of sex with guys trying to get attention and uses her body to get things. A slut is also a girl who doesnt care who she's sleeping with, even if the guys have girlfriends, etc.

I'm only 20 and i've been with far too many guys in my life, but i dont think i'm a slut. I've just made several wrong decisions. I havent used sex as a tool to get guys either directly or indirectly, i've just gone with the flow.

dont worry what others say, no one can judge you unless you allow yourself to be judged.

 

I would tend to agree with this... the simple act of sleeping with lots of people itself does not make one a slut, rather thair movites behind it.

 

Not slutty in the slightest i dont see why people get so hung up on these things if your enjoying then surely thats all that matters, look after yourself but if it feels good do it

 

Life is too short to let labels limit you.