I feel a little shitty about what I just did. My boyfriend checked his email on my laptop and forgot to sign out. After he left my place, i went to my laptop to check mine and I saw his email account was still on, so I thought I'd had a peep. I have never done this before. Anyway, I searched his emails and found photos of this girl he met before we got together. They had a weekend together and that's all I know about it. Why has he still got them? I dont know, he said to me that whilst I was away during the summer, she had contacted him and he had replied to her saying that he was with me and she stopped contacting him. But her email is from the time I was away, and she is sending him a picture of her, with the message saying, 'as you have sent me three, i send you this one, hope you like it, it's the dirtiest one I have' It's been almost a year since the date of that email. should I ask him why he still keeps her picture? should it bother me? cos it really does.
well most importantly, share the damn picture. i wunna see too. arty: aint no funnnnn if the homies can't haaaveee none arty: oh um, leave him.
I suggest you better talk to him first. Clear the issue. It is best if you talk about it together and not to assume things. If you want, you ask him to delete the picture. _______________________________ conversation skills Free Report reveals secrets to making great conversation. Get it here: http://www-conversation.com/ communication skills Free Report reveals communication skills secrets that work like magic. Get it here: http://www-communicationskills.com/
It's just an old pic. I wouldn't worry about it. It's like a chick thinks because they're the current girlfriend a guy should forget any other chick or good times they had with another chick that wasn't them. Welcome to the maturity stairs: Realize it's nothing and step up or obsesses about it, confront him and come out looking to be the bad guy - 'cause an old pic vs snooping in private mail - will make you the bad guy in any confrontation about this.
It is a picture.. He is probably over it, yet it is still always going to be a memory for him. He might just not want to lose that memory. It is just like not throwing away, or buring a pic of an ex..
if it bothers you than ask, no one is perfect and you have a right to ask any question that is on your mind. don't let him pull the " why were you looking at my emails"shit he didn't log out so shame on him. i'm, sure if he had found your emails and he read them and something bothered him he would be the first one to question you. that's what relationships are built on the ability to communicate with one another
It's probably not a big deal that he still has the picture. My hubby and I have been together three years and he still has pics of women he used to date on his pc. I have pics of a couple of my ex's on mine. Two of my ex's are also my friends on myspace. He chats with a woman he went out with a few times every night. We trust each other and both of us know that we are going to be faithful. On the other hand, mlee is right. You have to be able to communicate with him. I'm sure he WILL ask what you were doing looking at his emails, and rightly so, but it is going to eat you up inside unless you ask him. Just tell him you are sorry you looked (if you are sorry... honesty is important too) but that this has been bothering you. If you have a strong relationship, then you will both be able to move past it.
its just a picture. i would forget about it and dont look at his private friggin emails. ive seen so much fucking drama result from reading partners emails, just dont do it!!
my girlfriend use to get pissed about my top 8 on myspace,checked it many times, used to look at my phone while i was sleeping, check the pics on my camera, and even at times, sneak out of her house and come to my friends house(i lived with him for 6 months)to check up on me, this one time me and my friend invited these girls over since they drove us and we go kicked out of the place we were at, i had no intention of getting with either of the girls cause they were club sluts, but she assumed i was doing shit with one of them, then she had the idea becasue some 15 year old chic(im 19) said i was hot and shit,that i was going to bang her or something...her and i broke up..moral of the story.."curiosity killed the cat" the cat being our relationship
