so.... I finally got the guts up to ask my fiance if he would have anal sex with me, and he said yes! ... and then he surprized the hell out of me... he asked if I would get him off anally, with my finger(s?). I had always thought he was an exit only kind of guy. I am qute pleased. I have no Idea how to do this. he wants me to tease the crap out of him, and then get him off. I have been dominating him for a few years, now, and have become really good at that, but anything anal is a completely new realm for me. anyone have any suggestions?
lol... the sex in space thing is hilarious.. didn't have anything on prostate massage though. I found a pretty good article here though, in case anyoneelse is interested.
well we tried the prostate thing, but haven't gotten around to me yet. I just haven't had time. I shouldn't even be on hipforums right now.
It is a really amazing thing when you can share anal sex with your partner in both a dominant and receptive way.
eh... well he didn't DISlike it, but he said it wasn't something he was interested in doing again. I enjoyed it, but then, I wouldn't insist that we do it again if he didn't want to.
I commend him for being open-minded. There is so much of the opposite type of person out there and they are really missing out.
I don't think it is prostate that is stimulated. It is the pressure asserted on the nerve-endings of the penis which is just next to the anus and near the entrance of the anus front. You cannot just rub or press it during non-orgasmic stage...will hurt so bad and even tear the membrance inside the anus. He has to tell you when he is near peak or about 2 to 3 minutes to ejaculation and that is when he is plateauing at orgasmic junctures and that is when you insert a lubricated finger inside to press against the nerve endings and tap that area ....and that will hasten the ejaculation and that ejaculation will be more explosive. I have tried many times and it works....I am not a gay....I am a 100% male and I do enjoy it most of the time. ASCK
