I really dont like talking about this but I feel safer with a net fulla hippies lol. Uhmm..I'm REALLY tight and Im trying to get myself a little looser so that when Im ready the guy can fit and when I masterbate it wont hurt as bad. What do I do?
the more turned on you are, the easier it is for a guy to enter typically. so figure out what turns you on, and tell him what works for you before he tries to enter you, and hopefully you'll be turned on enough. also make sure that you hav elube on hand and that he fingers you a little before hand
I take it you're a virgin, right? I wouldn't do anything. I had the same exact thought when I was your age. I wanted to be big enough for a guy to fit. It kind of backfired. I didn't get to have the "losing my virginity" experience. When the time came, I wanted to feel the pain, I wanted to bleed, but since I'd stretched myself in preparation I didn't get to feel that, so losing my virginity wasn't as fulfilling as it probably would have been if I'd been tight like a virgin should be. So wait until after your first time. Have the FULL experience. After that, if tightness is still a problem then I would worry about stretching.
Dont worry, i was very tight until i reached about 16 too i tried to sleep with a guy at 15 and it was MOST unpleasant...its best to just relax and wait. When ts right, itll be fine
When I first did it I thought I was too tight too cuz he wasn't getting it in and he told me it wasn't me. I ended up going down on him which in turn gives me more pleasure, but am also trying to think of other positions we can try.
Dont worry about the tight Vagina. When my wife and I first had sex she was a virgin, and it took 3 days of trying to finally get it in. It is not something to worry about. Dont try to make yourself looser; that makes no sense.
just to offer another point of view here... i really enjoy sex when i've been having a lot of sex recently and i am nice and...well not loose, but not too tight either. tight hurts, and unlike many females i don't enjoy this. the original poster might not enjoy the pain either (i know some ppl find it more of a turn-on, that's personal preference). to the original poster: if you don't enjoy the feeling of pain and 'too-tightness' when you finger yourself, i doubt you'd enjoy it when having sex. only you know what feels good for you! so if you're worried, then find stuff that really turns you on and finger yourself with one or two fingers. get really wet. make sure you're really turned on when you have sex so you're wet...and don't be afraid to use lube if you feel you need it. you want it to be pleasurable for BOTH of you...NOT just him. sex is about both of you oh! and most of all relax and have fun!!! it's horny fun stuff..remember?
"Pff, like he'd have any interest in a sex addict with a tiny vagina." I think that would be a pretty cool problem to have. I could tell people I have a TINY vagina.
