ok.. so my gf went to the bar with her friends. Shes 18 im not, you get the picture. Anyway she was telling me that some guys bought her and he friends drinks and they danced and 1 of them touched her ass. I dont really know what to say right now, im a really jelouse person and just thinking of that makes me want 2 kill someone. i guess im just venting. Anybody gotany advise for a really jelouse guy?
fyi your profile lists you as 18 atm venting is fine. a ctually assault and battery is not. tell her she needs to learn how to tell guys no/to fuck off, shes not single after all. ok, maybe not -tell- as most women wont respond well to that, but suggest that next time she tells them to fuck off since you two are an item, an exclusive item
if they were at a club , she probably didnt invite the guy to touch her ass... she probably feels bad about it coz it was probably an accident. it sounds as though she knows she is in a relationship. unfortuantly guys at clubs dont usually ask girls before they touch any part of them. this wasnt her fault. just calm. tell her that you need her affection and to know that she is yours.
yes, sehe did nothig wrong and there is no reason to be jealous she told you about that incident, and that means that she cares about her relationship and she cates about you so just relax
she went out so? and if some guy touched her girls ass obviously he thinks shes hot? so get over it!!
it sounds like he's angry at the guy. if a girl slapped my guys ass I'd be all over her, even if he wasn't his fault it would piss me off some girl did that. i don't dance with guys at bars. thats asking for trouble. a hippie concert without my boyfriend, maybe for a minute to be nice and then explain i'm pratically hitched, but not a fuckin bar. she's just young and probably doesn't know better... in that you have to be really CAREFUL when getting any sort of attention from men, and don't lead them on, even if you don't mean to they will read into any kind of signs they get.
Thats where I would say its at. Someone forced their drinks down her? She didn't have money for her own? Sounds like some guilt over flirting gone too far.
Umm.........it could be that she knows he is the jealous type and told him about the incident to get his attention. I used to do the same thing with my exhusband (who was addicted to video games and had forgotten i existed until i filed for divorce). Just the same, you DONT accept drinks from a guy in a bar if you are dating someone else. Its not appropriate. Not to mention dancing with them. Thats very inappropriate.
She was just being overly flirty...its not like she did something real terrible. It was just a touch...thats nothing really...
I'm not upset with her anymore. She told me because she trusts me, and thats important 2 me. I went over to her place at around midnight the night after it happend and we chilled and talked.. talking makes things feel better, it wasent the only thing making me feel better that night but it was one of them
