I think I'm starting to hate men.

Yep, women fall for assholes... it's some pre-set self destructive mechanism within the female mind... it's like a time bomb... women are weapons of mass destruction!

 

I disagree, I have seen many women with great guys. not all of them fall for assholes, not even close.

 

I always fall for the wrong girls! Im getting tired of being nice lol, but dont worry, I wont give up. Just, a little tired of caring thats all

 

I'm a weapon of mass destruction

 

I'd really like to smack that man across the face for doing this to you. Grrr!
It's hard enough going through losing a baby...not to mention having a guy dragging you through the mud like that. Like you aren't dealing with enough already.

But don't hate though sweetie, there ARE some good men out there. Don't give up hope. Although I can cetainly understand why you're feeling the way you are right now.

{{{Hugs}}} honey...my thoughts are with you.

 

No! There will be no soup in this kitchen! How dare you ask for chicken when there is only beef to be served! Obey the rules of this hell-hole and you will not be harmed by the feminine sailors that are staring at you from the corner of the bar, with martinis in their hands.

 

I can't begin to speculate about the internal dialog of someone I don't know so I don't know if the appearance of insensitivity is just his way of dealing with a difficult situation. As for the asshole always getting the girl... I've seen it over and over and over again. Bad boy gets girl, then treats her like shit, they break up and she complains bitterly about bad boys, vows never to fall for one again. The next dick head comes along and she falls for him. It isn't that she's being insincere in swearing off jerks, it's that she's just attracted to that type of personality- and always will be.

I imagine initially being treated like gold by someone who treats everyone else like shit will make one feel sort of special.

 

It's largely the women who fall for the assholes fault there are some many of them now. Contrary to what is implied by commercials for Burger King and cheap beer, the true test of a man is not his willingness to create pain but his capacity to endure it.

 

That's exactly what I do...

But I really would like to be the one approached every once in awhile.

 

Welcome to the club, meetings are on Tuesdays.

 

Sweet!

 

wow, sorry to hear about your loss, must be tough to deal with

 

I know what you mean.... I don't think it's the -men- who are the problem.. it's more like the -boys- who just can't grow up. And I've come to the same conclusion... pretty much the only person you can really trust IS yourself. No one is ever they seem that they are and when you find out who they are it's already to late and you're already hurt. I'm sorry to hear you're having to deal with all of this alone... but what I have seen you have many people here who are behind you and here for you.

 

im so sorry annie to hear about your loss,
having said that...dont use it as an excuse to lash out at others who just dont care...those are the responses you will get from some, other than that take it in stride and live...

 

Oh, seems to be so easy for a man to say ...seems to me the guy who assisted me in getting myself into this situation should care...after all, it was his child too.

 

im only telling the truth...man or not...i know several women who have miscarried and the fact of the matter is; one moves on...dwell on it, and you destroy yourself...

 

Women seem like a better class of human to me..But they always seem to get on the mans trip and give up their own.If the guy that is -uh-involved in your late pregnancy goes with friends instead of being there for you ,he's lacking in character and is a boy ,not a man.-------My condolences.That has to be super hard to deal with.Hang in.

 

I think all men can agree that women are a better class of human.

But with that said, we'd never want to be one in a million years. on average women are shorter than men, they're weaker than men, and who the fuck would ever want to get pregnant and walk around like a grounded barrage balloon for nine months

They're amazing


Hotwater

 

You move on, but you never forget...forgive me if it just happened a few days ago and still grieving

Some boys just don't get it...

 

Thanks...I'm doing my best to deal...

And I also agree...he definitely is lacking in character...if I was still hung up about this six months from now, I could see the frustration and apathy...but...quite frankly, it hasn't been that long...