Girlfriend has pain on the first entry every time

My girlfriend and I were each other's firsts and have had sex 9 times now and everytime we do she has a sharp stinging pain but only for the very first penetration. Does anybody have any possible reasons or solutions for this? I would really appreciate it and more than me, my girlfriend.

 

I think the pain is normal, I've had sex with my girlfriend perhaps dozens of times and she hurts still some of the time. If I was lucky enough to be having sex with her everyday, maybe her body would get used to it and hurt less. It's a sensitive area that has to deal with you stretching it open. Soon after, the good feelings take over and then pain isnt noticeable. That's my experience anyways.

 

She could have small cuts or chafing on the entrance to her vagina from recent prior sex. Use a lot of lubrication on your penis or a lubricated condom, with extra lube on it. (Don't put vaseline on a latex condom, however)

Also, try entering her only a little way, then pull out, then go a little deeper, then pull out, and gently go in all the way. Don't force it. If she feels pain, she may tense up her vaginal muscles expecting the pain, making it tougher to enter easily. Be gentle.

 

has she brought this up with her doctor at all? its worth mentioning next time shes there

 

my lady always screams when i first put it in... its natural, the hole is small... loosen her up a little with your finger and get her wet, then fuck her guts out.

 

She might be a bit small and you might be a bit large.
Plenty of foreplay and you should sort the problem out a bit HTH x