I have fell for my best friend, who i have told. She said she is confused over feelings that she has for me, we have kissed, but she said nothing can happen because she is straight. Do you think she might be using the fact that she is staight because she cannot deal with the fact she likes another girl. Has this happened to anyone on here, some advice would be good, thanks.
i fell for my best friend... but i didnt realise it until she moved away. now she is back and has a boyfriend. after i told her she said she liked me as well... but now we just fuck occasionally while her boyfriend watches.
I fell for my best friend and we then were together for almost two years. She later claimed she was straight and left me for one of our mutual best friends. (She lied so bad. She just needed an excuse to justify her three months of cheating and desire to be with a guy to conform to societal norms.) Anyway. She might feel uncomfortable about it. Just let her know that you're there for her if she needs to talk about it. Give it time and she'll make up her mind. I hope everything works out for you.
I would just talk to her about her uncomfortable feelings. Just because she is not "out" as being bisexual, doesn't mean you can't have an intimate relationship. I would make her feel very comfortable and stay away from pressuring her or LABELING her! ~peace
went thru the exact same situation, only with different genders. it's really hard, because there was like the half of me that wanted to say "either you get with me or we quit being friends" and then there was the other half of me that enjoyed him as just a friend. It sucked so bad being around him all the time, because it just made my feelings for him more intense, and it just made it all the much harder not to have him, but I could never decide if that was worse than not getting to see him at all. I had to go through both experiences to finally realize that you shouldn't let your intimate feelings for someone ruin or pressure a good friendship. Let her come to you. Go ahead and let her play out her straight game, but in the meantime, show her what she COULD be having. That's what I'm doing, and it seems to be working pretty good...
Honestly it sounds like she might be attracted to females... but might be afraid to admit it. Some people it's hard for them to admit sexual feeling that by a lot of people are viewed as taboo. I know if I was a totally straight female I would never kiss another female, but at the same time like her, I had a friend that came one to me who knew I had a interest in experimenting with another female, but I've always been to shy to let go and go with my true feelings when it comes to a situation like that.
Ahhh I've fallen for my bestfriend too but it's really killing me. I'm in such a bad situation right now. I used to be comfortable with my sexuality and I thought I was totally straight until this year when I started having weird dreams about my friend. I told her I think I'm bi and then I told her that I like her and she told me it was rubbish and I was just being silly. It's not good coz she's really homophobic and if we hug or anything she thinks that everyone will think she's a lesbian. But when I was really upset at band camp she hugged me infront of everyone and we just lay there on the bunk together and it felt so nice then, I could feel her breathing against me and everything and I wish it would happen more often but we're always fighting coz she has these friends at work and I get extremely jealous of them and I'm awful about them. I really don't blame her for hating me coz I'm such a bitch but I just can't help it. She talks about this boy all the time and I just get soooo pissed off and wish she would love me like him. I tell her she's too good for him coz he doesn't even like her. Aghhh I just don't know what to do, I have to see her everyday at school and in some ways I absolutely hate her but no matter how much I hate her I just can't hate her seriously coz I love her. And also I don't know if I'm totally bi or not coz I never loved another girl before and I don't find other girls hot or anything. So I'd call myself bi curious, but oh I just long for her touch. I've been so depressed lately and I don't want to tell my parents why. They know it's coz I'm fighting with my friend but they don't know how much I love her. Only her and another friend of mine who is bisexual too knows.
I had feelings for my best friend for many years and still kinda do but have accepted the fact that she is bi and very hot but just doesn't see me that way. I think telling her was hard but well worth it because I understand how she feels and it has made our realtionship more open and honest. And who know what the future holds... Anyway you should just stand back at bit and figure it out. If she is confused about how she feels she just needs sometime. Either way no matter the outcome it sounds like you love each other and will always be there for each other. A very similar sittuation to mine. Sexuality is fulid I believe she may not want to be with you now but give her time and she may. Or she may be straight and not willing to explore either way in the end I think this will make your relationship stronger just give her and yourself some time. She will work out her issues in time. Good luck
omg it is ok i like my best friend n she 9well i think) she is trying to come to terms with her sexuality maybe she like gurlz or maybe it wasjust a gurl crush. give hr time. the truth will come out eventualy
