I have to get this off my chest

*whew*

 

Well, by all means embrace all of this, because

 

I admire your honesty. I myself have just recently decided to open myself up to members of both sexes, and while I'm still waiting for the experiance, I'm very much looking forward to it.

I say you should try it out, you never know, you might find that you like it...

 

thanks dan i appreciate your support, it's much needed.
woohoo i feel so much better


nova

 

i wold much rather look at porn with girls than guys in it. don't get me wrong i love men but i wold rather watch two girls go at it... I am married and my husband doesnt seem to mind either...
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novarys, I should have given you some actual written support.


In all seriousness, discovering all these attractions or curiosities in yourself for the first time can be, as we all know, very emotional. You can feel happy, sad, angry, excited, scared, or anything at all depending on your situation.

All you need to keep remembering is that lesbian attractions or actions, drunk or sober, are completely fine and healthy - not "almost natural." I know it's hard at first to embrace them, but try not to feel bad or guilty about them in any way. There a number of different ways to get support and meet other people who are questioning.

Women are really, really amazing. The bonds you can form with them on all levels are pretty incredible.

 

You are doing it because you really want to do it & because you are loaded you have given yourself permission either under the guise of being loaded or just because it is tapping into your inner being. This naturally doesn't count for things done to you while you aren't able to fend off unwanted things but I am talking about what you willing do in a loaded state. Like rocknroll_girl said. There is nothing wrong with making out with a girl while you are drunk. I would be willing to bet that you would enjoy it more sober though.

 

yeah your right i prolly would like it even more if i could kiss a woman sober...*ponders*

 

I didn't start geting into drugs or drinking until after my first gay experience.

 

yeah im married but i would MUCH rather watch two girls.

 

You should persue a relationship with a women, that's they only way your going to figure out if your gay or bi. I always knew that I liked girls but I wasn't sure about guys so I had relationships with both. I now know that I am bisexual, and in love with a man. It took a long time but now I know and I'm a happier person because of it.

 

Neither did I. Smoked pot like a chimney the whole year I was in love with my first girl...tough time

 

yea i agree u really dont do things u dont want to do, so if u r making out with women when drunk then u want to make out with women. Funny, i have been with many women sober but never drunk, so it is not that natural! he hee. Actully i dont understand why people get all sexual when they r drunk, when i have been drinking i get really introverted, and if i get to point were i m drunk then i can get really like close minded. i dont want anyone to touch me and i dont want to be around anyone. but i enjoy drinking alot and i have never been one of those animal house kind of people.

u should try to have a relationship with a woman and see how u like it, or at least have sex with a woman and see if u like it. cause that is the only way u will actully no. i have known girls that think they like women, and they sleep with a woman, and realize that it is other ascepts about women and femaleness that they enjoy but not women in a sexual since.

 

The reason, I think, that watching two girls rather than a guy and a girl is FAR sexier, is because of the sensuality. Heterosexual porn is like BAM straight to the “action”. But they’re forgetting, or choosing to ignore, that it’s about the journey more so than the destination. And girls know how to touch each other. I think it’s much more arousing for most people to see caressing and kissing and touching and rubbing and sensual things than to just see close-ups of some guy ramming his cock into a girl like a jackhammer until he comes.

 

Surf,

That's the greatest writing I've seen in a long time

 

seriously?

 

yeah that was pretty blunt but true! i enjoyed reading it myself...and thanks guys for your support. i appreciate it.

 

Girls do rock


It took me ages to realise I liked girls, I'd kissed some guys but it wasn't great, and I'd kissed my friends occasionally when drunk and it was *great*! Once I let myself think that I might be attracted to women I realised how much sense it made, and now I'm with someone!