I dont understand pornstars

I watched this porn thing called "Midnight Prowl", its like where a famous pornstar drives around and has sex with members of the public, i dont know if its set up or not though.

Anyway this female pornstar was having sex with a guy and gave him head and stuff, but when he offered a kiss she refused. Why? A kiss is nothing compared to the other things she did with him.
And then later shes having sex with someone else and she suddenly stops, gets up and says, "he's sweating on me" and asks for a towel.
Its not just her though other porn stars are the same.

Why are they like that, i dont get it.

 

because they are pathetic slags who want the world to see there fannys and tits so guys like you can watch em and have a good wank no matter how fucked up you think they are... you still cum on yourself so stop moaniong and groaning about em.. or dont watch em

 

Either its that time of the month or your not 35.

I'm not moaning, i just dont get it. Dont cry :H

 

I've been in a relationship with a prostitute. I asked her why were prostitutes hesitant to kiss.


She told me it's the one aspect of her affectionate life which she associates with emotional intimacy. Therefore it is also the one part of their bodies which they reserve for those whom they like. Therefore the disgust in being kissed by those whom they don't like.

You say what they are doing is much "worse", but in fact, psychologically, they learn to dissociate their emotions from genital activity. It's pretty fascinating actually though no less problematic.

But anyway, their world is pretty difficult and full of emotional contradictions (desire/repugnance) as you can guess from the judgemental airhead who posted above. It is people like her who make prostitution inevitable, as Simone de Beauvoir has already stated.

 

Yeah, in my opinion, kissing is more intimate than sexual acts. It's more emotionally involved. I don't know why.

 

Now i think about it pornstars/prostitutes are pretty disgusting.

I dont know how anyone could go out with one knowing what they do for a living!
It seems to me like they use that stupid rule of no kissing to make themselves feel better. I'm sure when they were 13-16 years old if someone told them they would be pornstars and prostitutes they would feel dissapointed.

 

EazyE, there is a long tradition in Western Civilization, dating back to Socratic Greece, that views sex as a contaminating force, which can only be redeemed through metaphysics: hence "love", hence "marriage".

Could you explain to me, in as much detail and as precisely as you can, using the least amount of metaphors and innuendo, what exactly is "disgusting" about what they do for a living?

 

Because they would go with anyone, and not even care about the possible STD's and STI's.
Plus its such a degrading way to make money.
Like those high school re-unions, when all old friends get together and talk about their jobs etc. No one is going to be proud and say, "oh i'm a prostitute now". Obviously you will defend those dirty skank prostitutes till the end of time because you have had a relationship with one (god knows why). Well i guess your other thread about the tranny explains a lot. Oh and that other other thread where you said you groped a girls dress at a bar.

 

firstly im not an air head, what i said was a fact. i dont know why any of you would get so defensive when i have seen it as it is.
girls who take there clothes off for sex and show the whole world that they are doing it so you can jack off to them is discusting. it doesnt mean that we are not going to do it though so whats the point in going on

you say there discusting so why are you watching them. what i said was strong but whats the point is trying to make it sound all nice...it is what it is.

no im not on and yes i am 35, i dont have to show an educated view and use a grown up attitude to see the facts.

the thread is about porn stars not prostitutes. and some of them do kiss ive seen em, so why did you start to compare them to prostitutes

how can any woman say 'oh well im totally detatched when i shag but oh i dont kiss its intermet.. listen i am a woman and intermsey is intermasey if any of you out there are dateing a porn star dont belive them if they tell you there is a disattachment when they are with a bloke there liying. all womem want attention...infact porn stars are the worst ...look at em they want the world to see how great they are.

and you know this for a fact do you....groann men are so nieve

now were getting on.

listen as a pagan im as free as a bird. and love makeing out with my man. i bet EazyE is the same he doesnt view sex in itself as discusting. what we are trying to say that porn stars are. just because we both have a view on pornstars being discusting doesnt mean that the act of copulation and procreation is wrong.

i can do thats easy... here i will discuss the prostitute thing. some girls make out for money in private. these are called prostitutes and i can understand this in a way, but i cant as well, because there is a way to find a job.
but they are not being filmed in a studio being watched by all to make money. even though these girls make a fortune showing how they make men and women squirm, i bet they dont think in there subconsious that what they do is dirty. they will just tell themselves something else and justify what they are doing is fine. it still is and always will be discusting, that is why people are wanking to it because its not normal and its seedy and they put on a constant show for the deprived person.
thats all i got to say really, there is no justifying a porn star and if you can you are doing it because why? Because.....

need i say more

 

i forgot to say how pathetic you are to even try and blame me for a woman makeing up her own disisions. what a woman chooses to do has nothing to do with me...are you an airhead?

its ther own fault that they have a world filled with(desire/repugnance) because of the job they choose to do.

 

Wow.... crazy daisey, you have effectively made yourself look like a moron and a bitch.

 

I don't agree. but for booby and butt pics I might just call you intelligent.

 

well i do and im sorry but that it doesnt matter what you all think im a good person so no one can ever make me feel bad about what i wrote.


Moron (psychology), a psychology-related term for a person with a genetically determined mental age between 8 and 12

i dont think my answer could of been answerd by a person aged 8-12. it was my own opinion and i think it was right. how can you not know that.

 

hang on a minute ive just read that you CrazybutLazy are 14 years old.


why are you here love, your not even old enough to have sex.

 

judgemental much?
(and, in reference to the comment above, people as young as 14 have sex all the time, youre a damn fool if you think that people wait til their 18 and married to fuck)

anyway... i think that porn star is a step up from prostitution. minor celebrity and all (sometimes not so minor either). and, if youre really good at sex, you look great and you dont have those social qualms/boundaries that most of us do when it ocmes to sex/intimacy, thehn why the hell not? i don tlook good on camera and i have those social qualms so its not gonna be my carerer path, but if it works for them i dont see why peopl ehave to be so freakin hateful over someone elses life

 

It appears you've given me 3 reasons:

1) STDs

2) "...its [sic] such a degrading way to make money."

3) You couldn't be proud of your profession

Answer #2, you guessed it, begs the same question: What is "degrading" about it? (And by the way, I do think it's degrading, but I want to hear reasons not dogmas from your own mouth)

Answer #1: I want to ask you this, are all diseases "disgusting"? Are some diseases more "disgusting" than others? Why? And what makes them "disgusting"?

Answer #3: Is a circular line of argumentation. You obviously have your prejudices so it makes it hard for a prostitute to be proud of what she does. But because she isn't proud of what she does, does not mean that your prejudices are justified until you offer rational arguments in their defence.

Here's the reason why I was involved with a prostitute: she was a vivacious, quick-witted, and caring mother of two, that used the money she made to get her out of her situation of utter Third World poverty and open a food stand. From there she got married, and is helping her husband manage his car wash. (Hopefully you understand from this description that I'm in no way romanticizing prostitution. But as Simone de Beauvoir says, prostitutes and wives are two sides of the same coin in a symbiotic relationship: one can only exist because of the other.)

When you actually deal with people, rather than concepts, you don't have the luxury of denying them their complexity from your armchair judgemental high-horse...

 

Just so you know in the states if your a pornstar you have to get tested for std's every two weeks and bring the test to the set with you. When I was considering being in Adult movies they told me the same was in canada.

 

And plus, people associate stds with prostitution, but the overwhelming number of transmissions occur between people who have sex with each other repeated times...not an ad hoc situation where you're more likely to use condoms.

 

Bs.
You were involved with a prostitute because you are a desperate man, your other thread claiming you nearly went with a tranny backs up my opinion of you.
Also i told you why its degrading, everyone looks down on them like they are filth (which they are), its a shameful "job" and you lose all respect from everyone except your other prositute friends.

The diseases arent disgusting(which is how disgusting is spelt, with a "g", me, a 15 y/o boy can spell better than a so called 35 y/o female)just unfortunate if you have them, but the fact that many prostitutes obviously dont care if their "clients" have STD's and STI's is disgusting, its so unhygienic!

I dont like talking to you, you are the kind of person females on the net should steer clear of. Groping girls dresses and needing prostitutes to have sex with shows how desperate and weird you are.

 

religion=disgust of body parts,guilt for mind control,denial of god given pleasure,judgement of others.-----Grow up.