How to politely critique her oral skills?

I've been dating a new girl lately. Recently she gave me oral for the first time.

Not to sound ungrateful, because believe me I'm not, but quite frankly, she wasn't that good at it. A little painfull, actually. I couldn't see what she was doing, the lights were off (which didn't help, because I love to watch). It felt like maybe she was actually sucking it too hard, and not just running her lips over it. Or maybe her teeth were catching on it. I couldn't tell. I feel I'm average sized, so I don't think that was a problem.

Now she was really into it, enthusiastic as hell actually, The sounds she was making got me off more than anything, I think. Then when I came, I think she leaned over me and took the majority on her chest, which is also hot. Too bad I couldn't see, dammit!

Anyway, how can I politely tell her she needs to work on her technique? I think the best way would be to coach her while she's doing it, but I want to be as gentle as possible as to not hurt her feelings. Like I said, I really appreciate that she did it, it means alot to me.

Any tips?

Thanks!

 

"i love it when you..." "it feels so good when you..."

 

You could tell hear... "can you try this... "
I actually really love it when my guy tells me what he wants me to do. Cause I am doing it for his benefit so I want to make sure he is getting enjoyment out of it.

 

I've found that the best way to critique anybody on anything (sexual or otherwise) is to start off with a genuine compliment, then go on to a gentle suggestion.

So in your case you could say, "I LOVE that you're into it, and that really turns me on. Do you think you could try running your lips over it lightly for a little while?" (or however you feel that you want it to be done). And then be patient, and encourage her when she gets it right.

 

you got good advice here dave.

 

Yeah, I did. Thanks alot, I appreciate it.

 

Good luck buddy. I have been trying to get an excellent blow job for years.