So I have a bit of a crush on an old coworker of mine...absolutely gorgeous, inside and out...and it can get frustrating when we hang out together and although all the signs are there that he wants to kiss me...he doesn't! We've hung out NUMEROUS times now, and still, nothing...this frustration has led me to want to hang out with him just for the challenge of getting that stupid kiss (oh my god, he has amazing lips)...it has now gone BEYOND that I have a crush on him. I wonder if that's normal or weird? I wonder, would I still want to hang out with him as much if he had kissed me earlier?
Just lean in close when you hug hello or goodbye. If he doesn't kiss you, then you just kiss him. There ya go.
you gotta hint it to him tryign to figure out if the kiss is welcome or not can soemtimes be the hardest thing for guys
Jesus Christ, not again. DancerAnnie, who taught you that women should be passive and pathetic? That women are incapable of taking actions of their own? That women aren't allowed to initiate, to be bold, to take risks, to set the pace? Who taught you that women shouldn't actively pursue their desires?
I'm sick of always pursuing a guy, to be honest. I'm tired of always being hte one "chasing" after the guy. I deserve a man to desire me and chase after me. So for now, I will sit back and wait...
Guys like it when you make the first move. After that, they will pursue you. I can only say this for this decade. Good luck! Men are quite clever these days. They don't want to work too hard for nothing.
Guys arent always clever some are shy and shy to show how they feel for the fear of getting hurt or slapped lol. I would say kiss him dont give him a chance just do it and see what happens, which ever way it goes at least you will know for sure.
maybe he's avoiding it because you co workers. some people especially guys don't like to get involved with coworkers, to much drama.does he have a gf? maybe he just wants to be friends.
I think sitting back and waiting sounds fun, I love the feeling of that build up before anything happens- all that exciting tension. However if it seems like he'll never kiss you I guess you'll just have to get in there!
Who knows why your friend won't make the first move...it could be that he isn't interested, fears rejection, or is just too nervous....and so on. So, you can either make the first move and see where it goes....or sit back feeling annoyed and hope he does.
I kissed my current boyfriend first and wooowee it was like lightning hit me... *blushes* he was "drunk" and laying on my couch ... but I just recently found out that he was faking it and that he was hoping I would do something to show him I liked him.. and well I did =P that's pretty much all it took.. a quick kiss to a guy who was supposedly drunk (yea I know it's not a smart first move) and then after that he was all over me like white on rice... haha is that the saying lol... i dunno but best of luck to ya Annie.. I hope you end up with somebody who really deserves you =D
We are no longer coworkers he moved on to a different job about a month or so ago. And no he doesn't have a girlfriend.
I feel the same towards women...anyway, sorry if I was a bit harsh. Good luck with everything you're going through.
