Having a bi wife. Are you cool with it? (merged)

My wife and I are both having our later in life bi experiences and enjoying them. Not only with our respective bi partner, but with each other too.
I will make love to her, without my cock getting involved. Basicly, I just give her oral and finger play. It's very sensual and she enjoys playing like this. In the same respect, she enjoys putting on the strapon so I can show her what it's like on my side of this spectrum. She was impressed at my bj skills and ability to deep throat her strapon.
Do any other bi married couples play like this? Any good stories?

 

Why would you deep throat a strap on? I don't think it can feel it.

 

To impress with the skills, dude.

You gotta respect the skills.

 

Wow, kudos to your for monogamy. My life partner and I are both bisexual as well, even though we are in an opposite sex relationship. We will always allow the other to experiment safely and honestly although.
~peace

 

that sounds interesting pretty cool! seems that you have great relationship.

 

My wife knows that I usually get a bj when I see my friend and she asked me as soon as I walked in the door. I wasn't afraid to tell her the truth, she is bi herself and it's not a problem. She is just curious and wants to know all of the details. Not just "did he suck your cock", she wanted to know if he sucks it, licks it, licks my balls or ass, then all about when I cum.
She also knows that I have engaged in mutal pleasures with him and asked me if I gave him a bj in return. Again, she wanted to know all of the detail about what I did. When I asked her why she is so curious when she hates doing it herself, she says it's exciting as long as she isn't doing it and she likes hearing about it.
When I try to pry everything about her bi playtimes, she is very vague and flys past the good parts.
I wouldn't think that telling her all of the details would be exciting to her.

 

Do you gave a specific question? Or what exactly do you want to know?
Women don't know what it takes to suck cock, anymore than Men know what part of a vagina to pay attention to. (Clit and or G-Spot if you know where it is) Only a man can suck dick properly! And only a woman can lick pussy, the way THEY want it.
But then there IS a certain intimacy in sharing with your partner. I think what your GF is looking for from YOU, is: "Communication". She wants to know what YOU want/Like.
Good Luck with this!

 

I was just putting my story out there to see if any other bi couples who share intimate details about their partners and their sex play.
She knows what I like and what I want. She just gets off on hearing all of the juicy details.

 

My wife has always asked for the intimate details of my encounters with Boyfriends and does take some vicarious pleasure from it. It is as matt proposes a communication issue. we are certainly closer as a result