My Husband Without Him In My Dreams

I did not know where to post this. In Dreams or Relationships but I am confused either way. For the past few nights I have had dreams where I am having sex with other women (I am bisexual but very commited to my husband if that is to say) and my husband is watching and not intervening or part of the action. I do not sense any hostility from him. But when I wake up I feel like I cheated on him. In my dreams I enjoy but in waking I love him and want to be with him. I am very confused. I told him and he said it was nothing. But I feel bad. Is this wrong? This is probably stupid.

 

It sounds like you're repressing a lot, and possibly so is your husband --- as is the case in most monogamous arrangements.


Do you guys discuss fantasies often?

What made you want to be monogamous? Please don't tell me "love", that's too general.

Did you ever give a thought to having other kinds of relationships?

 

thanks. we just talked. i feel better and we have ideas. thanks again ^_^

 

you cannot control your dreams only your actions